I miss my girlfriend that I broke up with - I am writing for support to help me realize that running away from her was my only option. check out this level of crazy: I did not know she was married for almost 8 months of communication, once I found out she says that she has divorced her husband for me. that being said, trust is out the window. I catch her in constant lies, so many holes in all that she says... I feel like I cannot believe a word out of her mouth. if I catch her in a lie she either denies it, has strange reasons to explain it, or says that she was just kidding before. she lies about important matters and about details. she tries to control me in everything; she is right I am wrong, that is all. no dialogue, I have nothing to offer. I am wrong every time I bring up anything important to me - there is zero compromise. my emotions and needs do not matter. she is overly flirtatious with other men... even taxi drivers will call the taxi company, claiming that she left something in the car, just to get her number. it seems like every single guy that knows her is obsessed with her. she will even send me screenshots of messages other guys send to her... there is something about her that is very cute and sexual at the same time, and it feels like everyone is after her - and she lets me know this. she has rules for me that she herself would never follow - double standards. it feels like she wants to control me. for example, "if you drink a beer, don't bother coming to see me." or, "don't laugh like that", or, "change your pants, they are dirty (but they are clean), wash your hands, take another shower..." she has some crazy obsession with germs... the first thing I have to do when I walk into her house is take off all my clothes! oh man, I am so tired of that insanity! I myself am a little obsessive with cleanliness, what she does is completely mental. she will scream and cuss me if I even sit on a piece of furniture wearing pants that I wore outside...
I broke up with my girlfriend, finally - looking for support and confirmation that I made the right decision?
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she becomes volatile in a moment without any warning, I am always worried that I will say the wrong thing. she expects for me to read her mind. her idea is that it is the girls right to tease, provoke, and say "no", and the man must be able win the girls affection despite this behavior. if I do something for her she belittles me for it - for example, "its not enough flowers". she claims I do nothing for her, but I pay for all our meals and common expenses. granted, she pays a lot too... for
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I cannot get enough text here, its all jumbled, sorry for that... let me try to continue via updates...
