My ex girlfriend broke up with me randomly yesterday and she’s already causing problems and we had a physical altercation at my door?

[Bald-n-Boastful]

In short she randomly sent me a text saying “I think we should just be friends from now on” so I replied “if that’s what you really want” and she finally wrote “yeah let’s just be friends” and I was quite sad and deflated but at the same time I’d never beg a woman to be with me as I have some self respect and pride. Later that day I asked my friend Jane if she wanted to come over and tbh we did have sex but she wouldn’t have known that if I didn’t tell her and I still haven’t admitted it, but she must have been stalking my FB because she said “wow we’ve been broken up for less than 24 hours and you’re already sleeping with other women and drinking champagne” in the video she saw was just me and Jane clothed on my bed drinking champagne. Either way I don’t see relevancy of that so I replied “if we had sex or didn’t have sex it’s irrelevant” and she replied “so you’re just going to do me like that... smh” and I couldn’t be bothered to argue with her so I left her on read but she sent one final message saying “if you aren’t going to talk to me about this on here I guess I’ll have to talk about it at your door then” I got angry at this point and gave her a fare warning saying “look if you arrive at my doorstep I will defend my property” 30 minutes ago I heard a knock at my door and saw it was her, I immediately went to close the door but she put her foot in the door and was trying to stop me closing it so admittedly I’m not proud of this but I did palm her in the nose as I felt I was under alarm, harassment and distress. I mean it’s a shame our short lived relationship ended sour like this but is it really my fault?

[btbc92]

No respectful man treats women like whores. She had every right to be upset because it tells others who you actually are. It says a lot about you as a person, what you about,. how you treat people etc. That is your friend. The fact that you slept with your friend and because you couldn't sleep with her says your a manwhore to her and she has 0 respect for you now. The truth is you not remorseful or loving at all. Just somebody who trying to use other people and sex because you not happy. Plus, nobody, not even women randomly breaks up with a person. There is a REASON why she broke up with you, and probably said nothing to avoid you. The fact you slept with your friend, posting such a disrespectful picture, drinking on top of that, etc tells me a LOT about why she did: you have no morals. She had no right to go on your property but you're being cowardly by telling her it ain't her business when it is.

Imagine that was her FRIEND. And for women, we look after our friends. If you slept with any other woman, she probably would have been mad, not pissed or livid. Go too close to home and that's like touching our children. But you slept with a friend, and this is why now as well as for men concerning women, we can't trust people having friends of the opposite sex. But you sleep with them. You literally became her enemy.

This is toxic and disgusting behavior. I don't agree with the sexual perversion lifestyle and this kind of a mess. This makes guys like you unattractive to women and you want to know why you have problems. You have a LOT to fix. She shouldn't have come to your doorstep. I don't see the point of why she wanted to just be your friend. A good friend is not somebody who does and treats others as you do. They don't do this, they don't sleep with them, they don't crosslines. You just broke up and you just wanted to get laid. That is sick.

[Yourfriend2021]

You shouldn't have hit her, no matter how you felt, even though it was drama.

[Avicenna]

Text her not to contact you anymore or come by, then block her.