Does he want straight sex or a romantic relationship?

[Anonymous]

We both have Asperger’s, so I’m only slightly more socially aware than he is. After telling Ben I loved him but it wouldn’t work out, Ben scared me for a year by chasing me through Facebook and in person. I closed the location device on my iPhone and I changed my iPhone Apple ID code. Then he started trying to find me through online dating accounts, hinting it was him and indicating that he wants a friends with benefits relationship, then saying he’s just not ready yet for a relationship, then telling me he knows all my personal stuff about my sexuality and my job. Them continuously swiping yes on my profiles under multiple new profiles and hinting it’s him but denying it when asked outright. What does he want? Someone said sex. I don’t understand what he wants and I was once in love with him, so I must not tread lightly.

[Guy13]

Sex is preferred but romantic if we must…

[Asker]

Well there’s my answer I suppose. I only go romantic with guys these days. Sex within a committed relationship. Sorry Ben. I’m looking for a boyfriend and to one day get married and have a family. Thanks for your honesty though. Kat xo. That’s my purpose for looking on dating sites these days. There are plenty of other women who’ll sleep with you. You just have to be bold and ask for what you want. What I used to do in my promiscuous days was find someone living really far away that no one would believe I’d ever hook up with. If they went bragging around about it, people would go, ‘Oh yeah, right.’ Yet they were still attractive. You’re a guy so you don’t have to worry about getting a reputation. But I still suggest someone who lives further away. Don’t shit where you eat is a tacky term, but it’s said for a reason.

[Asker]

So basically what you said means you want a purely sexual relationship but would date me to get sex?