List your standards. Downvote if the persons standards seem too high. Upvote if their standards seem reasonable?

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I'd say my standards on a scale of 10 with high being 10 is maybe like a 6-7... I'd probably get downvoted if you could downvote me lol.

Persona: 
• Must treat others kindly (mainly myself/children)
• Not completely shy, but not fully outgoing
• Ambitious (I like dreamers)
• In pursuit of getting at least an associates degree
• Humorous but not in a rude way
• hasn't had sex with or dated more than 3 people
• Great Kisser
• Monogamous
• Wants marriage and children before 30
• More trustworthy rather than straightforward
• Charismatic yet a good listener
• Passionate/Romantic/Kinky
• Adventurous
• Religious
• Responsible
• Hardworking/Handy
• Can cook
• Supportive
• Protective but not overprotective 
  (just dont leave me hanging)

Looks:
• Fit (Not fat, but not skinny)
• Mostly straight teeth
• Taller than me
• Short hair "preferred"
• Nice/Short finger nails
• Okay feet unless he's willing to often wear socks
• Little to no body hair
• No facial hair (a short goatee is okay though)
• Maybe a nice firm booty lol
• No piggish nose (yea I went there)
• Nice Natural eyebrows 
• Size does matter but I won't go there
• Please no 5 head (hats/caps can fool you)
• No big lips, but also not thin enough to where they barely exist on his fave

Since you can't downvote me, I'll at least let you rate my standards with 10 being too high. Poll:

Xelebrum · Accepted Answer

Personality:
- Can make me laugh and has a great sense of humor (or at the very least won't get offended over every little joke I make)
- Isn't so shy that she has trouble making any friends, but isn't a chatterbox either
- Is very loyal
- Doesn't act entitled to shit just because she's a girl
- Is willing to stand up for her beliefs in a respectful manner (Isn't spineless)
- Has many, if not all, of the same views as I do
- Has an appreciation for the fine arts, especially music (If she herself can sing or play an instrument, that is a HUGE plus as I am a singer myself)
- Loves animals
- Wants to get married and have kids one day (The one thing I will NEVER give up or "compromise" on)
- Is respectful to my best friends and parents, especially my mom
- Doesn't smoke cigarettes (I can tolerate weed as long as she doesn't force me to do it or expect me to hold her shit for her)
- Isn't a party girl but doesn't act like a hermit either
- Knows or at least has an idea of what she wants to do in life
- Is educated (Having a degree isn't mandatory but is highly preferred)
- Knows how to cook (She doesn't have to be as skilled as a chef, but she needs to at least know how to feed herself)

Looks:
- Is shorter than me (5'0" to 5'5" is preferred)
- Has nice, full lips (Doesn't have to be big, but I can not stand thin ass lips)
- Has lovely eyes (Green eyes are my favorite, but I'd be fine with any color)
- Has long, healthy hair (Honey blonde is my favorite, but I enjoy brunettes and red heads too)
- Isn't too skinny (I don't want to see your ribs sticking out)
- Isn't too fat (If you look like you're pregnant but you actually aren't pregnant, that is a huge turn off)
- Race doesn't matter to me (Although Latinas and mixed girls are my favorites)

RayNation · Accepted Answer

I gave you a 6. Sounds quite fair to me. But gosh what a list haha

My persona is exactly like yours. I dont want someone whos just dated or had sex with a handful of people. I'd also like a hardworking person wth something going for them. Hopefully they have a good job or at least are pursuing some sort degree.
I also hope they are religious like me, just so we'll be on the same page when it comes to our kids. My girl doesn't have to cook. She can leave that up to me.

I hope my girl is fit as well. It would be nice if she had a nice size chest and booty, but I'm fine with it as long as she has one of the two. Face is very important. Her hair length isn't though. Hopefully she has no body hair as well. If she does have a big forehead lol, hopefully its covered by a bang or something. Teeth is important as well. I'd actually like for her to have trimmed or bitten nails and please no nail polish! I also hope she has natural eyebrows, wears little to no makeup, and is shorter than me.

GirlsLie · Accepted Answer

Personality-

Down to earth, I can't deal with snobby or superficial people.

Open minded, can't deal with people who hate gays, who are racist or sexiest.

Intelligent but I don't mean education wise, I mean in the sense of knowing how to carry yourself and not act and say stupid things all of the time.

Caring, empathetic and polite towards others.

Confident but not cocky, just confident enough to not be influenced by others and to be genuine.

Humor
I just want someone who I can have nice conversations with but who doesn't take shit too seriously so we can laugh about a lot of things as well.

I would really like someone who likes playing video games also lol

A job, even if it's a McDonalds, I don't care, as long as he works.

Loyal, I couldn't be with someone who I didn't trust.

Doesn't want children.

Doesn't mind pets because I love them.

My dislikes are- guys who are arrogant, who thinks money matters, who put all women into one category.

Looks-

My preference is like 5'8" and above but I would date someone shorter.

I prefer skinnier guys or even skinny/toned a little, not really into muscly/buff guys lol. But honestly I would date almost any body type if I liked someone, I don't mind a little bit of a stomach or a guy who is a little skinny. I would date a guy who had a little extra weight or even who was buff, even though it's not my preference. I'm not really that picky about it.

I find all different types of faces attractive, so I don't really have any standards or limits when it comes to hair, eyes, facial features etc.

fauchelevent · Accepted Answer

Here's mine, I think that yours sounds pretty fair, though maybe specific :)

Personality:

• Has to be a nice person (like you, has to be nice to me, animals and children)

• Doesn't necessarily have to be the smartest person around (I'm not!) but I'd want them to be able to debate with me sometimes

• Can't be too high energy otherwise they'll irritate me

• Has to be able to make me laugh

• Has to be able to make me smile because I'm really emotional and I get upset a lot, so I need someone who knows how to make me smile

• Has to be honest with me. If they're not comfortable telling me something, they have to say that, they can't just lie to me about it.

Looks:

• Just not much muscle please

• Good teeth would be nice but stains and stuff are okay

• Taller than me (so I'd prefer at least 5'4, with 5'8-5'9 a preference)

• Long hair (at least chin length)

• Preferably not much body hair

• Good ass :)

Relationship:

• Should be able to cook because I can't

• Has to want some kind of life-long commitment, not necessarily marriage but I'd prefer that

• Has to want some kind of pet

• Has to want children (either adopted or ours biologically, I don't care)

PurpleTeardrops · Accepted Answer

Your list made me think of an male model for Abercrombie & Fitch... you better look like an Abercrombie model yourself! XD

My standards

Persona:
-Kind-hearted
-Respectful
-Emotionally stable
-Open-minded
-Mature
-Monogamous
-Can cook well
-Responsible
-Good kisser
-Has a life, career, goals for himself
-Supportive

Looks:
-Good hygiene
-Healthy/In-shape
-Good looking/handsome
-Short/Trimmed nails
-No facial hair
-Tall, at least 5'10 (however this can be trumped by a handsome face and good personality)

SakuraChii · Answer

You're standards are not that bad
Persona
-Respectful
-Kind
-Open minded/understanding
-Supportive
-Into education or learning
-ambitious
-If he's an introvert than he has to be open about his feelings and problems in the relationship
-faithful
-responsible
Physical
-just attractive to me (some of my female friends have told me that I have "low standards" when it comes to a guys look, so I don't think it's bad)
-takes care of his appearance and hygene (simple stuff)

Ghosty · Answer

Looks:
FIT BODY!
cute face
long hair
sporty
long, shaped legs
not thin lips
not taller

Persona:
intelligent
has multiple ares of interest
sexually creative
funny
not smoker
someone I love to spend time with
someone I can talk to for hours
not ignorant
honest
laughs a lot
happy
loves herself
don't care to much about what people think

BONUS:
dancer
flexible

snowangle · Answer

Clean (no drugs or smoking) Intelligent Generally a kind person Christian Wants kids Likes dogs Not insecure Funny That's all I can think of, lol

Anonymous · Answer

I want a girl who can make me laugh and who introduces me to new things. I want her to be an encouraging partner and in turn I want to be able to encourage her. She has to be OK with cats... That is by far the most important out of my standards. As far as looks, I want her to have a good smile. I don't care about height, I'm about 5'3. Obviously she also shouldn't care about height. Basically I want a girl who respects me for who I am and loves me for more than just physical characteristics

Anonymous · Answer

These are deal-breakers. Not even dreaming

-good hygiene
-loyal
-has good sense of humour
-not obese or too muscular
-not clingy
-has nice haircut
-is kind and polite

Most important thing would be that he would even like me. That is why I have high standars

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Riggers · Answer

Looks : Not Obese Not Annorexic face around a 3/10 - 5/10 Personality : Just a genuinely nice person

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Pretty face nice body healthy Fun ambitious and supportive thats it really anything else is a plus

Anonymous · Answer

Can not Drink or smoke or do drugs.
Has to be thin
small breasts
small ass
small hips
NO tattoos or piercings other than basic ears
under 35
brunette
had 0-5 sex partners total
trustworthy/loyal
sweet
quiet
non-argumentative
is silly and fun
doesn't try and change who I am
doesn't pretend to be someone else to get me to like them
doesn't play games
doesn't emotionally manipulate
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Sounds like an impossible set of criteria but I found her and married her.

Aizou · Answer

I settle for no less than what in my eyes, are perfect. So should you, and everyone else. ^.~

Anonymous · Answer

Average looking face, Not obese can be skinny, but not a requirement , EXTREMELY loyal and respectful, supportive and wants something out of life, freaky in bed, has little to no baggage financially independent, but emotionally dependent.

GIFit2me · Answer

Wow my twin. I think I'll just copy and paste your list here. But might I add, I dont want a guy who smokes :)

Esplorare · Answer

Your standards are simply unrealistic because they do not honor the unique place a man may be on the timeline of his life when you meet him. They also negate from his collective package. You can’t cherry pick through someone’s distinctive external and internal identity. That’s not how being human works.

If you go through life arrogantly acting like men were put on this planet to please and impress you then you will accomplish nothing besides dismissing damn good men and embracing some of the worse men because they don’t have a “piggy nose” or “nice natural eyebrows.” Maintain this idea and you’ll learn the hard way, not the smart way.

muspelhem_5 · Answer

1) I must be attracted to her physically 2) I must be attracted to her emotionally

JSmuve · Answer

There should be another option G: good fucking luck

Streamhopper · Answer

Seems reasonable enough to me.

lolita97 · Answer

That fact that you have a list is setting you up for failure.. there is no way that someone can be everything on your super long list. You will never find it and honestly when you meet someone, are you going to be comparing them to this list?

Anonymous · Answer

You're dreaming! Come back to reality!

meatballs21 · Answer

Your standards are far too high, if even a quarter of those are dealbreakers.

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