Search Results: how to get him to stay

We dated longer. Why would he talk bad about me to her?

I'm still trying to figure out why my boyfriend of 8 years was talking bad about me to the SAME woman that we were talking about with each other🤔. He had me calling her phone two years ago, called her all types of h** to...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Am I dumb for helping him even though his baby mother says he's begging her for sex?

So recently, I helped my boyfriend get his lights turned on and I bought him some furniture for his house. Oh well. And no he doesn't help me for real. It's just I'm nice to everybody. Even though, they never really help...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Family & Friends

What is your secret toxic trait?

If I had to pick one, it’s my ability to turn my emotions off like a light switch. It’s not something I’m proud of, but it can be destructive if triggered. I live my life grounded in facts, logic, and structure....

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

Entertainment & Arts

On the Run: Timothy Busfield

I don't even know if this is in the mainstream news yet, but there's an arrest warrant out for Timothy Busfield, who is the husband of Melissa Gilbert, who was Laura Ingalls on Little House on the Prairie. He's a big TV...

rachel776

Influencer Age: 21

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Travel

Did you ever find the idea of swimming in the ocean scary?

I live in the Melbourne area about 12.5 Km from the ocean and I love exploring the beach. But at my Uni there is still a pretty large international student body including many people from inland areas and they said the...

Ad_Quid_Orator

Guru Age: 36

Why is he so weird around me?

My colleague is a couple years older than me (26) and he's pretty confident speaking in our work meetings and stuff but confuses me. He sometimes won't look me in the eye while talking and will stay looking at his...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

Guys, Do you think a gal is being difficult just bc she doesn't "register" that you're hitting on her? Was this guy really being so obvious?

At a reception. My young single friend (F33 never married) spots a guy at the bar (M~49?). She casually glances over & gives me the "he's cute" look. I gesture for her to claim the empty seat next to him. She goes all...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

Do I settle for friends with benefits as a serious relationship don’t exist? is a guy I don’t like the right guy?

I never had a serious relationship with, never met family never lived with a guy. I’m 28 and each year my hope gets lower. ill never get married as no one wants be my boyfriend , this means no one desires me no one dreams...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

What is this that i’m feeling for her?

So I made friends with a coworker. Both work at a hospital. Both techs. We are busy most of the time but come Friday and mainly Saturday we are very slow. She is sometimes scheduled alone for hours during those days so we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He committed to someone he told me not to worry about, now wants to have an affair with me?

2 years ago I got into a long distance open relationship with an avoidant man, who hasn’t had a relationship last longer than 8 months in the last 10 years… We kept meeting up and traveling together, but when I expressed...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Influencer Age: 29

I’m not understanding the reasoning?

Hooked up with a man out of state 6 months ago that I was previously talking to off and on while on vacation. The night was very intense almost like love making. Offered to pay for my stay and reinsurance me for my time...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do You believe he thinks I'm stupid for letting him disrespect me for this long or no?

My boyfriend and I had been on and off for 8 years. I use to let him use my car, I paid for his house etc.. i even went far letting him stay in my home for free around my daughter. Sadly, though, Every time I needed help...

tempirl2012

Xper 5 Age: 34

Is it better to get married or stay as friend with benefits?

Ba0licious

Xper 3 Age: 44

I’ve decided it’s time for me to stay away from dating as a whole, anyone else?

Yeah yeah, I’m young. I don’t really care how young I am at this point, I’m just done with it. everyone man and woman, have made it a big deal that I have only had one boyfriend in my 23 years of living. And don’t get me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should stay at home mums do all of the housework?

If she doesn’t have a job while the man does, yes. That would be her contribution to the family unit. If both she and the man both have jobs outside of the house, they should do the housework equally. FULL-TIME...

SolitarySolace

Yoda Age: 29

If she doesn’t have a job while the man does, yes. That would be her contribution to the family unit. If both she and the man both have jobs outside of the house, they should do

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Marriage & Weddings

What should I do, is he actually trying his best or should I just end of all here?

I will try my best to stay neutral here, but this is happening with me rn, and I tend to also obsess over the bad things. So I, 28 F, in India, have been in the arrange marriage process since almost 2 years, I've talked...

Kehlaniya

Xper 4 Age: 30

Did my husband cheat or was it just an innocent bar hangout?

My husband went to go to a bar with his work colleagues. At 2.30 ( closing time) he tells me he’s leaving. At 3.18 am I ask him when he’s coming home - no reply - call 5 min later no answer. He texts me that he’ll call...

PlasticxTree

Xper 1 Age: 34

Why would a guy squeeze my hand so hard while a handshake?

So, both of us are family friends. We have known each other since he was 5 and i was 10. But lost interaction because my family shifted city.. He kept contact on messages.. till i was age 19 and he was 14. Later, his...

Anonymous

(25-29)