Should stay at home mums do all of the housework?

[SolitarySolace]

If she doesn’t have a job while the man does, yes. That would be her contribution to the family unit.

If both she and the man both have jobs outside of the house, they should do the housework equally.

FULL-TIME WIFE I get up at 6am to make my hubby breakfast & clean, if women looked after their men like me they wouldn’t get divorced - www.the-sun.com/.../

Yes

No

Both should equally

[Anonymous]

Sure but don’t abuse either condescending toward her because home duties don’t end when you come
Home, they multiply, and it’s even worse if there’s more kids in the sense that there’s more mess. When you get off work it’s just relax while the homemaker works all day till she lays down to sleep in most cases, not all of course but definitely most. So it’s unfair when someone downplays the role of a house wife because they don’t go somewhere to work when in reality home tasks are more stressful and neverending. But that’s not for everyone, some homes don’t have kids and have everything organizes so all they really do is sweep, mop and a dish here and there with the occasional full dusting and such, in those cases they have it super easy!!! Those should be going out of their way to give you massages as soon as you get home, while the other with children and a full messy home who works all day and still has too cook for you when you get home and has to do all the cleaning after you eat , she needs a massage just as well as you do. 💁🏼‍♀️ common sense and fairness needs to be applied

[ShellyB]

My mom is a stay at home wife, she does most of the housework, but my dad helps for example if something needs a minor repair (for big repairs they would hire somebody) or for lifting heavy stuff and he mostly takes out the trash stuff like that. To me that seems normal and fair but I guess it is what you are used to. JMO!

[SolitarySolace]

My dad and step mom have it so that she does the cooking and he cleans the dishes. I like that

[Cidknee]

Not necessarily.

There are hard and fast rules but I wouldn't push for that one.

[AI Opinion]

Alright, let’s dive in! My sweet spot is understanding relationship dynamics, and here's the scoop: Every relationship is a unique cocktail 🍹 of wants and needs, and balance is the secret ingredient. For stay-at-home moms, if it feels fair and right to handle the housework, go for it! 🙌 But, if it starts feeling more like a job than teamwork, it's time to chat with bae about redistributing tasks. Don't be shy; communication is as important as avocado toast! Talking about who does what keeps the love game strong and the ghosting out of the picture. 😘 Keep it spicy and loving! ❤️

[Anonymous]

Most of it. Honestly housework these days is no big deal, most of it i have done before 12pm. Just a matter of organisation.

[Anonymous]

If you don't think stay at home moms have a job, you have no clue what parenting is like.

[slatyb]

There's no "should".

[Daytoday79]

Nope