Don’t you think women should be in the kitchen and doing the work at home for the family?

[Anonymous]

And maybe have part time jobs?

I only gonna find a wife like this. Modern women are a problem and will never be wifey material with a life lasting relationship

👉🏻👉🏻👉🏻Divorces are going up with women doing men’s jobs.

I agree

I disagree

[Anonymous]

To me, the perfect woman is smart and educated and wants to contribute the best way she can to her family. That means being a real mother when she has children and staying home to give them the best possible start in life, and then once the kids are older, she will go back to work and contribute financially. I have no interest in a woman who doesn't put the needs of her family and children ahead of her personal or career ambitions.

[Phantomshadow77]

If you expect a woman to do that, are you willing to put your family’s and children’s needs over your personal or career ambitions? If not, why? Shouldn’t both you and your wife be equally self sacrificing? Why do you get to be selfish while she has to sacrifice everything good in her life. I don’t see you being willing to cut back on watching sports, playing video games, or golfing with your friends to take care of your family and support your wife. Women don’t exist to serve you.

[Opinion Owner]

@Phantomshadow77 Of course I'm willing to put my family's and children's needs first. That's why my career is very important, because it makes it possible for my wife to be home with our 3 month old daughter and be a real and present mother to her during the most critical time in her development. That couldn't happen if I wasn't working my ass off during the week.

I don't golf, watch sports or play video games. When I'm not working I being the best father and husband I can be, or working on the house yard yard. The house we bought recently is a fixer upper because with Jenn not working for a while we couldn't afford something nicer.

Is my wife sacrificing everything good in her life? She would tell you it's the opposite. She has a precious opportunity to do the most important job in the world, and do it right. And I have the opportunity to do the second most important job in the world, which is to support her, financially and otherwise, in doing the most important job in the world.

Neither of us is being selfish. The only selfish person in all of this is you, because you are willing to put your career ambitions ahead of your child's development. I'm guessing you didn't have a real mother and that's why you are incapable of understanding how important a real mother is in the early years of a child's life. The first few years are critically important to their cognitive and emotional development. That period is an opportunity to do things right and set the child up to be smarter and more emotionally healthy for the rest of their life. If you squander those years, they are gone forever. But hey, you do you (and your children).

www.firstthingsfirst.org/.../

[NamerOfStars]

Many of them, yes; perhaps most. That's where they'd be happiest and most satisfied. But it should be their decision. I'm not for forcing anyone anywhere.

[dustybiker]

Nope. Everyone does their efforts to support home and family in our house. Whoever gets to what needs done first, does it, and doesn’t whine or have expectations either…

[Chrysantenum95]

Women can do this or that too.. She just need to have work-life balance with in her.

[Guy13]

It would be nice to find a traditional valued lady BUT that does not mean she does not work…. If she wants to stay home that’s fine in my house too…

[AviatorTom]

That system worked for many years, and it still works for some families. Within the past hundred years, more women want careers outside the home, and it doesn't work for those women.

[Dinklex3]

I think that people should choose to do what they want & whatever makes them happy.

[Iron_Man]

Basically it’s up to the woman they like to have their own career nowadays but wherever they can help is appreciated

[Anonymous]

How about everyone helping out with work in the home?