Search Results: turn off

Are you one of those people who attracts all the crazies?

I'm in a line of work where I have to be more patient and outgoing than I might have otherwise turned out to be. Part of it is my nature but some is acquired from living a hard life and feeling empathetic towards others...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl's Behavior

Why would this girl lie about not “talking to” the guy I used to talk to… just to find out they’re getting divorced?

I recently found out that a Nigerian guy I used to talk to was actually married the whole time. I saw online that he’s now filing for divorce, and it turns out it’s from the same woman I had previously come across—she...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Other than the person being broke, what's something that would be a major turn off in a potential partner for you?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

What's one disturbing thing you found out about someone you know?

This guy that was around my age when I was in high school used to walk me home from school. I didn't like him or anything like that and I honestly found him quite annoying, turned out to be a murderer years later. He...

Simslover92

Master Age: 34

Relationships

My boyfriend told his female friend about our personal problem? Is this a red flag?

So my new boyfriend and I have been together for a few days now. So far I see a lot of green flags beside this lack of communication with a situation we faced. I’ll just say we jumped kind of head on with sex because we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he give me such prolonged eye contact?

there is a cute professor at my school. He is a tall, white , handsome man. We are not familiar with each other at all. He has never taught me. We have never talked. Last year, he was getting off of work, we bumped into...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is this guy just playing me?

We started off as friends, turned into friends with benefits. I admitted to having feelings and loving him. I thought for sure he'd shut that down and tell me that he doesn't feel the same and that we shouldn't see each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Education & Career

Why does it seem like nothing can stay good in life?

I know we all go through ups and downs in life , but what do you do if your life is more down than good? Yea we can keep trying to pull ourselves back up hoping for the better , but how can you keep pulling yourself back...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Other

Did you ever see the moon so massively huge, it looked like it was right next to us?

Back in the early to mid `70's, we were in the alley just after dinner playing Kickball when one of us spotted this ABSOLUTELY HUGE yellow and white "globe" way down at the end of the alley at least 4 blocks away!! It...

FunkyMonkee

Master Age: 58

Break Up & Divorce

He ghosted me, went back to his toxic ex, and nearly 2 years later I still feel stuck. How do I move on?

I’m 19F, about to start my second year of college, but I’ve been emotionally stuck since high school. In junior year, a guy I liked was too shy to ask for my number, so he got it through a friend. We clicked quickly, but...

EllieT05

Xper 1 Age: 20

Guy's Behavior

Why do guys try to get a girl jealous when he's genuinely into her?

Every guy I've been with tried getting me jealous but it doesn't actually get me jealous... I just get turned off from the situation and move on. I'm not gonna look like a dummy for you

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What's your biggest turn off?

7Phoenix7

Guru Age: 35

Dating

You know, those websites that immediately want you to turn off your ad blocker, and either won't let you see their content unless you do, or let you see it but shame you, like saying "so you won't support us?" or the...

msc545

Master Age: 39

Health & Fitness

Women, what is more attractive: 5'9 with muscles or 6'0 and skinny?

Assume their faces are equally attractive. And when I say muscles I don't mean roiding body builder because I know that turns off women generally. When I say muscles I mean toned and athletic with hard biceps and chest.

Recovering_Romantic

Xper 1 Age: 31

Assume their faces are equally attractive. And when I say muscles I don't mean roiding body builder because I know that turns off women generally. When I say muscles I mean toned and

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Relationships

I looked through my girlfriend’s phone and found something that made me suspicious. Is this cheating or am I overreacting?

I didn’t want to invade her privacy, but something felt off. Saw messages that seemed flirty or secretive. No proof, but my gut says something’s up. Has anyone else caught something like this? How did you handle it? Did...

Anonymous

(36-45)