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I loved to complain ever since I was in high school over things I couldn’t control and they were not big matters. I complained about why I need to pluck my eyebrows, shave, wear contact lens, wear makeup like most girls. I even complained why must the train and buses break down at the wrong time. I also complained about why all the things I liked always get sold out. Then I realised I complained way too much and for what? If I don’t like to do something I can choose not to do it why complain? Even bad things happening to me is also not something I could control.

I didn’t follow society’s beauty standards and I chose to be different from most girls and women. I know I stand out a lot but if my choices make me happy, why not? I felt that people’s negative opinions of me for not “fitting in” didn’t matter at all. I’m proud to be myself and not because society expected me to look like. Only the right guy for me will be by my side since I’m different from most girls and women, I know he will come to me I just have to wait. I didn’t realised I’m lucky in a certain way yet I took my life for granted. I’m not a hairy girl then I stumbled upon an article written by a hairy girl, frankly speaking I felt bad she has to go through those struggles hence I learned to understand people with struggles much better.

And I also have to try my best to be a good woman if I want to attract a good man which was not that hard for me to be. I learned to be more compassionate, sympathetic and understanding. Good news: I had finally stopped complaining unnecessarily and learned to accept life better! If I can do it you can do it too!

You are single but saw yourself in a situation where you need to have kids now if you want them at all (35ish) can't wait for love anymore because you're getting too old and it's risky to wait any longer.

Two men agreed to have kids with you, which of the two would you choose? __________________________________________________________________________________

Guy 1. You know him for many years
He Pretended to love you and made you believe he loved you but then broke your heart and said he didn't love you and he is sorry he lied. He only decided to be honest now because he feels bad things are happening to him because of 'karma'. so he wants to be honest and agrees to have a baby with you now and wants to try again with you (you are very attracted to him but he's not attracted to you)

he is Tall, Light skin, Dark hair, brown eyes, VERY fit attractive body and very handsome
he doesn't love you but he agrees to have a kid with you.
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Guy 2. Nice guy who is pretty much a stranger but he is nice and have known him for a while maybe a year or 2 but only talked friendship wise.

He is cute, he has gray beautiful eyes, but he is 5'7" and is average fit body but not muscular. He says he doesn't know if he can love you or not because he doesn't know you well yet but he agrees to have a baby with you now and see how life works.

which of these two would you choose if you had to!