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(Assuming she is physically attractive to you).

Men complain about getting bored with women (including their partners), get annoyed by their emotional needs and anxieties, get repulsed and frustrated when facing a discussion that is not faced with with logic; complain about women wanting gender equality, thinking they wouldn't do their part or that they wouldn't offer enough on the table in exchange; complain about women being difficult to talk with and "expensive".

Now, imagine a woman who counters the complaints: she shares the same interests as yours with the same depth, has a technical and goal-oriented mindset, is confident and insightful about any topic you open, takes a lot of initiative to drive the day, is not anxious, doesn't feel gender inequality effects, doesn't need a boyfriend (but accepts one), is very logical and assertive during conflicts, coherent, chill and very easy to start any conversation with, men have an unusually very good esteem of her, she manager herself alone by a lot, reasons like a man would, knows what she wants, is generous, trustworthy.

All this can easily come with a cost that is typical of any "too" independent individual: she is sometimes cold and drastic, likes sex but doesn't easily commit to a relationship, doesn't perceive your authority, puts in you in circumstances that imply gender equality, is often too busy for your emotional needs and fully absorbed in her interests, doesn't reply fast to your texts, can't fall for any mind game or power struggles and reads your intentions in advance, doesn't forgive you by just by "missing" you, fights about strongly grounded opinions, is not afraid to offend you with a "no", has male friends she shares interests with, she needs alone-time and if you don't follow her initiatives she leaves you behind.

Is that a cost you would pay?

In my eyes it implies she has sex with anyone on the first date.

I am trying to figure it out because I rather like this guy, and would like to make this long-term with the potential for marriage if all works out. But at the same time, I know guys have a different ideologies on sex and sexual activities than women.

I find it incredibly strange friendship is seen as a simple solution to not dating. Mist dating doesn’t go anywhere whereas friendship can’t last a life time. Yes obviously if you date then date seriously then get engaged then marry, that may last a lifetime too but you’re usually just doing that once.

It’s like bro if I want something “simple” I’d just have sex with you— friendship actually means something, it takes respect and care to want, effort to sustain & I don’t do it with just anyone 😳

& Yes, I realize many people use “friendship” as a euphemism for “nothing serious”, and I’m saying it’s an absurd euphemism. Just say ‘I rather just hang out sometimes’. Friendship is not “not dating” it’s in its own universe and I don't know it bugs me how much disrespect people give it lol

Also, don’t worry I’m not really bothered I just find it silly to use friendship as a default when it’s way more hard core than hooking up. in my opinion. 🤷🏻‍♀️