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What I mean is by this question is: can someone who doesn't have you preferred looks (to each their own) can become hotter than hell to you with the right personality. I think yes and I have some funny stories about it:
At my local Family Dollar, there's a woman who works there and she's HOT, and I mean HOT! She's got the genetic lottery working in her favor, she's got a pretty face, big butt, wide hips, perfect size boobs, and a small stomach, she could easily be on a cover of a magazine. But whenever I see her, she always has this real bitch attitude. She looks at you as if you dog shit, she's always sighing and rolling her eyes, and she always talks to people as if you did her wrong. To me, even with her beauty, because of the way she acts, she's hideous (and even as far as unfuckable) to me 😒 . BUT , another story: I remember I went to the same high school with this one girl who stole my heart (I didn't date her, or anyone for personal reasons). She didn't have the appearance I prefer in a partner, she was a little redneckish, she was quite a bit chubby (but she did sports like track and power lifting), and she was about 3 or 4 years older than me, but I will admit her face and her smile was to die for. But even with those "setbacks" (lack of a better word sorry) she was very nice, kind, considerate, and flirty. When she talked to you, sh made you feel special and important, and she did this this thing where after a conversation she would drag her hand across my chest in a flirty way as she walked away (which I adored). Even though her looks didn't exactly fit my preference, she found a way to put hearts in my eyes 😍. And to be honest, if I were ready to date at the time, I defiantly would have dated her. But what do you think? Do you agree? Do you have a similar story?

Everyone fears it at one point, or another.

From middleschool into adulthood.

Rejection.

... but what of are we actually afraid?

My name is Oka, and I'm a professional wingman, for both men, and women. I advise, and assist people in learning how not to be afraid. Before we can address what of we're afraid, we have to discover what fear is.

There are VERY real reasons to be afraid.

Here are some scenarios.

An armed assailant wants your wallet, or your purse. You're staring down the barrel of a pistol so close you can see the caliber. The threat is real, and you have every reason to be afraid.

You're hiking, you're alone, and cross paths with a starving mountain lion. You have every reason to be afraid.

You fall in a tiger pit at a zoo. Zoo keepers are rushing to get tranq guns, and rifles... but the tiger is only five feet away. Be afraid.

These seem outlandish.

Outside of the most extreme scenarios, freak accidents, and unlikely outcomes, odds are in your favor (especially if you're not taking late night walks down dark alleys, or lonely streets; hiking alone , or jumping into tiger pits) that you're not going to end up in these situations. I'm notnsaying these such things cannot hapoen, only that the odds are infantismal that they will.

Fear, by and large is imagined. We as people live life under the guise of "What if".

What if this? What if that?

... but what is "what if"?

What if often leads to fear... and fear is largely imagine. It is an imagined outcome of an unlikely scenario what has not yet occurred, and probably will not.

The good thing about flirting, dating, asking someone out, or revealing your feelings, is that the worse they could do is reject you.

... so what's wrong with that?

Every coin has two sides, and to get to the meat and potatoes of your fears, we have to address hypocrisy. Has someone ever asked you out, and you simply didn't feelcthat same attraction? Have you ever had to reject someone?

I strongly dislike the perceived "equality" and "social justice"(which are all just a bunch of double standards against anyone who is White, male, Christian, and Heterosexual) that SJWs love to shove down on everyone's throats along with their PC bullshit.

I also strongly dislike and would refuse to associate myself with the Alt-Right because it's taken over by White Supremacists so obviously they'll hate my kind (Half White, Quarter Native American, Quarter Black, basically a worthless "m0ngrel" to them), have double standards (in favor of the White race) like making the US a White Ethnostate and not give a shit about any predominantly Non-White countries with some White population, nor give a shit about anyone else who is "Non-White", that has lived in the US for generations. Also, any other White person who just even slightly disagrees with the Alt-Right, is deemed a "traitor" or a "mud shark".

You just can't ever logic and reason with either of these groups of idiots.

I’ve decided to block out anybody in my life who brings negativity toward me
In real life and online.

Yeaterday i had to block 3 girls..
One of them was a really really good friend of mine & she liked me.. but it’s like a policy of mine now...
i know she’s probably upset but...

She caught an attitude with me for no reason
She started fussing at me because she had a bad day at work.. I started talking to her at the wrong time... She just kept Just fussing and fussing... So I blocked her before she could finish..

Im sorry but... I block any negativity no matter who you are.. I’m done with it.
Another girl I had to block because she wasn’t being a good friend
I was going to ask her to do me a favor and she immediately said no.
She didn’t even know what I wanted

am I wrong?