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My husband and I have been married only two years, we have arguments constantly because we are both alphas and he always thinks it’s his way that matters only. He also is a hypocrite, he can do things but if I was too all hell would break loose. Lately I’ve been catching myself looking at other men or thinking what life would be like with them or what it would be like to have sex with them. My husband and I rarely have sex because he’s always too busy or tired and quite frankly when we do I can’t wait until it’s over. It’s just so blah. This have never been an issue before but it’s making me second guess everything, I feel completely wrong for having these thoughts but there’s a devil on my shoulder telling me to act on it. Advice?

First off we've not had sex or anything. But still

I made this accusation when for the 3rd time he forgot to do a simple tast I have asked of him.

I mean he had no issues excessively sexting me early morning but he couldn't send one text saying his job was having a serious issue and you know I won't be able to respond easily. You can do this anytime - including if he went to the washroom. So I waited for 12 hours & this is the 3rd time such a thing has happened.

He comically agreed with my comment that I deserve more respect, etc. however ever since that day his attitude has entirely changed. Comments that he was making about a future together, etc. for days - or weeks - have suddenly become rather up in the air iffy.

And I'm reading the change in mannerism

And feeling like I've been talking with someone that has been leading me on hoping for easy sex - and when called out on it felt guilty or maybe offended or like how liars don't like being called liars didn't like me pointing out his conduct.

For the record we have NOT had sex. But he has NO issues sexting whatsoever.

However when I ask him to do a simple request - text to let me know if you're staying late at work so I don't think you got in a car accident or something - he can't do this.

3 times.

I even came up with a simple code game - like want fudge, yes / no (he likes fudge) - so he doesn't have to really think about his response if late & he still can't do it.

I understand working late, exhausted, etc and maybe rushing around.

I work in medical during COVID I oftentimes didn't have time to eat and yet I'd check my phone briefly even if in the washroom in case something happened with family (parents, brother).

And it's like he says one thing but his actions say very differently.