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This cute girl started recently and she is quite nice. I didn’t think too much initially when she was presented (maybe that she is cute but that’s all). But the past couple of months I found that she has a really cool personality. Really nice, smart, sense of humour. She remembered some details for me even tho we are in different departments. We joke around. We had a very nice conversation about her hometown while travelling from work once and it seemed that she enjoyed our brief time then. However I never really though anything for my colleagues ever. For me they are just colleagues. I am kinda one of the cool colleagues with whom you can always talk to and get help and people usually expect me to do something in a convo. But here I am wondering after I kinda got nervous talking to her the other day.. heart pumping, weird. There is this one colleague who gives her a lot of attention and sits next to her. They joke around and stuff. Even gave her “jokingly” a “my-work-wife” bracelet. Yesterday I got a notification for her profile in Facebook. Was wondering if should just add her (I rarely add coworkers). I can talk shit in front of people for hours, but when it comes to the romantic side of things, I am kinda weak. So maybe just sit on my ass and pass? I have enough work and sh*t to ignore her but I find myself thinking…maybe she is just a good person and I shouldn’t mix things (today she even gave me free lasagna that she made for some cook-off they were doing at her department…talk about the way to a man’s hearth is his stomach.) So continue talking to her, add her on Fb and plan to ask her out?

I know this may stir some debate, and my disclaimer is that this is a generalization and not applied to each individual person.

This is my assumption... female and male personalities develop different. A boy is can be rebellious and a "handful" at a young age, may become a mess in his adolescence, but mellows out more as he ages and matures. A female, on the other hand, wants to please and mostly in good spirits as a young girl. This lasts maybe up until somewhere in adolescence, then they become moody, roll their eyes, and go "uggghhhhhhhh!" and easily annoyed. By the time they reach adulthood, they are likely broken in some way, maybe potentially from trauma of some kind (1 in 3 females face sexual abuse/trauma in their youth). They become critical and difficult to please, and/or they learn not to give their heart so easily.