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So I don't know if it’s b/c I use the apps kind of “casually”, as in every other day/every 2 days etc. It’s kind of rare for me to message a guy daily, unless it’s at the point where we’ve met up & are msging on a different platform/texting etc. But I’m pretty big on asking questions for obv reasons; if 2 msgs have gone by and I’ve asked questions while the guy is only talking about himself/just answering me, I’ll stop replying. I’m not quick to unmatch, unless it’s known we’re not a good match after meeting or they say something gross etc. It shows a lack of interest or the guy potentially being self absorbed…am I too hasty? Is it just how a good chunk of guys are on the apps? Or should I blame myself?

“Arnold Palmer was all man, and I say that in all due respect to women,” Trump said. “This is a guy that was all man!”

“When he took the showers with other pros, they came out of there. They said, ‘Oh my God. That’s unbelievable,’” Trump said with a laugh. “I had to say. We have women that are highly sophisticated here, but they used to look at Arnold as a man.”

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I spent 2 years with a guy who initially said he didn’t want a relationship, but we eventually fell in love. He treated me like his girlfriend—introducing me to friends and family, celebrating birthdays with surprises, traveling together, being deeply intimate, and talking every day. He listened to my problems and helped me through tough times. I truly believed we had something real, and from the outside, it seemed like the perfect relationship.

But over time, he started pulling away, prioritizing friends and family over me. He bluntly told me, “I won’t marry you,” and then left for Iraq, saying he’d been honest from the start about going back to his country. When I asked about trying long-distance, he called me a burden, criticized me for my family issues, and even said he had to tell me what to do about a cockroach in my condo. He claimed I should have understood when he said he wouldn’t marry me. I begged him to reconsider, but he quickly moved on, even saying we could still be “friends on Facebook.”

He’s already back on dating apps, seemingly unaffected by our breakup. Now I’m wondering—was I being used? Was I wrong to think we had something real? What kind of person moves on so easily?