How do I know if a guy is just using me for sex?

[Anonymous]

Hello everybody. Recently, one of my male friends I’ve had a crush on for a while told me he likes me. I’m not at a good point in my life for a relationship so I told him I need time and he said to take all the time I need. But we did get physical (no sex and it was consensual) that same day. He keeps inviting me to his house which scares me but he also shows interest in me by visiting me, walking with me to my home, holding my things for me, and more gentlemanly stuff. He even offered to help out with my birthday party and pay for my food. He is respectful and always asks if I’m comfortable when he touches me. But still, the inviting over and the physical touch make me feel like he’s just planning on using me for sex. What are some signs a guy is using you for sex? I don’t want to be disappointed by not realizing the signs.

[moneymagnet24]

He paying for your food n birthday not because he is gentleman it's his investment to get your pussy. You should ask questions to yourself if you remove sex then girls don't have anything to offer So it's obvious he want sex from you.

Don't be dumb fuck.

[incorrected]

Not every guy is only interested in sex. He will obviously want to have sex at some point, and the sooner the better, but he may want more than just sex.

[slatyb]

Are you enjoying it? If so, what's the problem? If you are having sex to get commitment, forget it. That won't work. Have sex because you want to have sex.

[Nikki1989]

If the primary focus of your interactions is physical intimacy, with little emotional connection, you should be seeing red flags all over the place.

[Anonymous]

Everything you just described sounds like a guy who's planning on hitting it and quitting it. Classic fuckboy moves.

[paledreams]

Classic 😃🥲 surely 🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

Common sense. Why do so many of you women on here lack this?

[In_Trance]

Keep your clothes on and see what happens