POLL- How do you know if a guy is using you for sex in a relationship?

[Sugar100]

I’m confused because people say that you need a good boyfriend that won’t use you for sex.
however I hear all girls say they have sex with Boyfriends or girls are pregnant by thier partner.

Do girls meet family, do serious things and date first then have sex? Do girls date guy and have sex then after do serious things like meet parents , live together etc?

what if a girl has sex with her boyfriend and he never meets her parents or anything serious after? And she ends up having a boyfriend without ever meeting family or nothing?
I thought having sex one night and hun leaving ur life the next day was a guy that uses you for sex?

[Anonymous]

Dig deeper into his personality. Or see if he objectifies other women like @boobslayer won't ever stop talking about boobs. ﾠ ﾠ

[Opinion Owner]

@boobslayer you missed an opportunity here. I should've called stacy.

[caring__1]

When you're being used for sex, your partner is pressuring you to have sex early in the relationship. See if he considers your feelings or tells you what you should feel or do. Does he primarily talk about sex? If he's trying to talk you into having sex, he's primarily in it for himself. Does he touch you inappropriately in public or when you ask him not to? Users may do things to impress you, but those actions tend to stop fairly quickly when either he is forced to slow down or he actually gets what he wants. When you do have sex, is there no or rushed foreplay? If you tell him or show him what you like, does he quickly return to what is familiar to him? Does he complain that what you want is too much work or rush to satisfy himself? A premature ejaculator isn't necessarily rushing anything, but see if he is willing to learn how to gain control over himself, as that is treatable with behavioral exercises. Does he disconnect from you quickly after ejaculating? Does he expect you to have quick orgasms? Does he focus only on breast and crotch, or does he make love to your entire body? Does he understand the primary sex organ for a woman is her brain, so if he doesn't help her get her head in the right place, nothing else works properly? These aren't the only signs to look for, but they tend to be the most common ones. Stay observant, and don't do anything you don't truly want to do.

[Sugar100]

We’ll I know one couple they had sex on first date and then met parents then married now.

[Sugar100]

With ex boyfriend I don’t let him have sex for one year but we only began dating til after that year wen we had sex. But we r broken up now I knew him for 8 years n dated 3 years n neevr met family or live together n he don’t want baby so it’s over.

[Sugar100]

I see many girls in serious relationships 3 years n meet family n have baby then break up. But that isn’t that bad as their time wasn’t wasted like mine.

[caring__1]

Before having sex, make sure both of you are on the same page regarding birth control, STI testing and protection and desire for children.

Just because people had sex quickly, that doesn't mean they were only focusing on themselves. There is no predetermined time frame for having sex. It all depends on the connection between the participants and compatible objectives. Waiting a year to have sex generally implies a reluctance to have sex, and your partner could lose interest in that time (possibly believing sex will only be allowed for procreation).

[Berethor]

There is always chance that you got used for sex if you are not married, so it hard to tell.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/why_buy_the_cow_when_you_can_get_the_milk_for_free

[Sugar100]

I hear one couple had sex first date and now married. Even as boyfriend girlfriend they met parents. 🙁 one girl has boyfriend for 10 years n she had sex before marriage. She had one child and then became fiancé and now another child n not married yet but she has the ring even tho she had sex way before with her boyfriend

[Sugar100]

All girls have sex before marriage n still become fiancé and wife 😔

[Berethor]

Well they was lucky, but if a man got a sex already then he might not want to marry. :)

[In_Trance]

You keep your clothes on and then see how long you sticks around

[Sugar100]

But I hear all girls say they have sex with boyfriend? I neevr hear a girl say she never has sex with boyfriend so I’m confused

[StarWarGirl]

I have never had sex with my boyfriend and we are in 1 yr and 7 months of relationship. I don't want sex before marriage and he respects that and we are still in love together planning our future.

[Juxtapose]

If you never have sex then you're just a platonic friend.

[jahaims]

Stop giving him sex