I am an attractive 25 year old. 6 foot 2 and Hispanic. I can dance, am a professional musician and a Doctoral Student. I have plenty of confidence and girls always tell me that I am very funny.
So, this is basically how it goes for me. I get numbers from beautiful woman, they like me..and eventually it goes nowhere. So lets say for numbers sake that I am an 8. When I use 1-10 I am speaking only of attractiveness. This is all that girls/boys get at first glance when they make first judgement. I hit on 9s and they really like me, and it goes nowhere. I hit on 8s, and they really-really like me and it slowly fizzles into nothing. I hit on 7s and they are in love with me..but guess what...it goes nowhere eventually. Then I hit on 6s. They stalk me, are in love with me, and push themselves on me the minute I give them any attention. It will eventually end up that I am with one of the 6s. I treat the 6s and the 9s all the same way. I am a pleasant guy to be around. Guys like hanging with me, and girls love hanging with me. GIrls also REALLY LOVE making love to me.
So why must I ALWAYS BE THE ONE WHO LOWERS MY STANDARDS?
Why do the pretty girls never lower their standards for the guy? It seems that girls only want someone they KNOW THEY ARE REALLY F-ING LUCKY TO HAVE A CHANCE WITH. Anyone else who is at their level...they blow off.
SOMETIME girls lower their standards for a boy, this does happen...dont get me wrong. But I feel that MOST OF THE TIME the guys have to lower their standards to get a decent girl.
A beautiful ex girlfriend billboard model of mine once said., " A beautiful person cannot get with another beautiful person. Only one person can bet he hot one in a relationship"
Is that true?
Does someone have to lower their standards? If so, does it HAVE TO BE THE GUY?
I will add a poll but PLEASE weigh in and comment!
PERSONALITY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT THING THAT I CARE ABOUT! I HOPE THAT ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE STARTED DUE TO PERSONALITY. THE FACT OF THE MATTER HERE IS THAT MANY GIRLS WILL NOT LET THE GUYS EVEN START SHOWING THEIR PERSONALITY!
Guys either hit the jackpot, or settle.
responses?
Gosh.
I am saying that guys go for a girl they truly desire and get shot down. Then, they will usually end up with someone else that they did not want as much.
Just had sex with one tonight.
So basically, the point of my update, wait for the right quality of what you know you deserve, and it will turn up. Maybe even twice.
Don't act desperate by accepting anything lower.
;-)
(I bet many of you girls hate that I can report this right now)
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