Guys always have to lower their standards to the girl? (Page 2)

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I feel like the guys always have to lower their standards to the girl.I am an attractive 25 year old.  6 foot 2 and Hispanic.  I can dance, am a professional musician and a Doctoral Student.  I have plenty of confidence and girls always tell me that I am very funny.So, this is basically how it goes for me.  I get numbers from beautiful woman, they like me..and eventually it goes nowhere.  So lets say for numbers sake that I am an 8.  When I use 1-10 I am speaking only of attractiveness.  This is all that girls/boys get at first glance when they make first judgement.  I hit on 9s and they really like me, and it goes nowhere.  I hit on 8s, and they really-really like me and it slowly fizzles into nothing.  I hit on 7s and they are in love with me..but guess what...it goes nowhere eventually.  Then I hit on 6s.  They stalk me, are in love with me, and push themselves on me the minute I give them any attention.  It will eventually end up that I am with one of the 6s.  I treat the 6s and the 9s all the same way.  I am a pleasant guy to be around.  Guys like hanging with me, and girls love hanging with me.  GIrls also REALLY LOVE making love to me.So why must I ALWAYS BE THE ONE WHO LOWERS MY STANDARDS?Why do the pretty girls never lower their standards for the guy?  It seems that girls only want someone they KNOW THEY ARE REALLY F-ING LUCKY TO HAVE A CHANCE WITH.  Anyone else who is at their level...they blow off.  SOMETIME girls lower their standards for a boy, this does happen...dont get me wrong.  But I feel that MOST OF THE TIME the guys have to lower their standards to get a decent girl.A beautiful ex girlfriend billboard model of mine once said., " A beautiful person cannot get with another beautiful person.  Only one person can bet he hot one in a relationship"Is that true?Does someone have to lower their standards?  If so, does it HAVE TO BE THE GUY?I will add a poll but PLEASE weigh in and comment!

sweetsin420 · Answer

ok simple answer men can't have a standard number becuse unlike men woman don't find the same things attractive like men do. so a 9 to one woman could be a 2 to another. example I love hairy chest on average most woman don't like them

brownchic · Answer

wowww maybe you should lower your thinking about how you put girls in sects of ratings! then you might really get a pretty girl who is willing to hang and spend her pretty precious time with you! lol

ltmcneill · Answer

oh please, I see tons of pretty women with ugly ass men.  You rarely see it the other way around.  You must have a bag over your eyes or something.

enlightenment · Answer

then you are settling and you are getting what you deserve...hold out for what you really want and quit whining about it.

Anonymous · Answer

Deserve? You don't deserve anything! All you are is baby batter. Now stop whining!

Anonymous1192 · Answer

No, you don't have to settle. If you settle or she settles then it's not the right person.  You won't have to settle with the right person, it'll just be.  You'll know it's the right person when everything clicks and neither of you settles to be with the other.

enlightenment · Answer

are you trying to date these girls or nail them?  Because looks really shouldn't be your only factor as it seems it is. A 10 in looks and a 3 in intelligence, the bedroom, compatibility only averages out to a weak 5

Anonymous · Answer

Gosh. Just get over yourself already! Ohh Emm FREAKING gee, you are obviously not a 8 or 9 or 10 because you are so damn insecure. Quit your whining and be a man already!

jujubeetzzz · Answer

i get the feeling your so shallow and into yourself that even tho your an "8" your personality is a 5, making you a techincal 7 or 6

Go_Drink_Pinesol · Answer

you said you treat all girls the same. which is fine for 6s and 7s. But if you want a 9 - you have to work harder for it. it doesn't matter if your a 10, a girl whose a 9 has other 10s after her too.

carby · Answer

Girls lower their standards just as much as guys I think.  The difference is that the girl's list of standards is about 100 items while the guy has like three.

Anonymous · Answer

I have plenty to say to that.  It goes both ways, I have lowered my standards for so long that I have just given up... But .. I am in an older age group so I don't think you want my opinion and will stop here.  :)

peace-love-couture · Answer

If you're rating attractiveness based on numbers, you aren't mature enough to date:)

CubanRaftRider · Answer

I think that guys have to lower their standards more than women do.  Most women get offered d*** every time they turn around where most guys are never offered p**** (or once in a while).

Anonymous · Answer

Really?  Most guys I know are with a female who is more attractive than them on the "numbers scale."  I think you're overestimating and think you're settling because you're a "6" getting a "6."

killthestory · Answer

Anyone else hear Night At the Roxbury's soundtrack? lol...

Anonymous · Answer

wtf? y would any girl hate that your reporting that? tf? relaaaaaaaaaax with all that egooo bruuhh #douche

Anonymous · Answer

don't you think if the girl thinks she is too good looking for you then she is a bit stuck up and you don't want a girl like that.

Anonymous · Answer

hahahaha I don't believe that update for one second, but good for you if you feel the need to boast to your internet buddies about- not sad atall!

Anonymous · Answer

I don't agree.  I think both genders have too high of expectations & either realize this & lower their standards, or end up alone & bitter.

selfconsciousgirl · Answer

I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but you might be a 6 or 7 at best.

wishyouwerehere · Answer

You sound extremely superficial. Maybe this is why you're not getting anywhere.

MsSxyBody · Answer

Nobody's perfect, that"s all I'm gonna say cause You have a lot of stuff on your question to read and I can see You think too much. But that's OK cause I think too much too and That's a cool flaw about U...

Anonymous · Answer

you sound like you love yourself a little too much - sorry!

zeeshan2 · Answer

Don't rate women like that man;  treat them all equally and you will find one regardless of you lowering your standards or not.

Anonymous · Answer

HAH that sucks maybe you just don't have the personality to attract the 9's and 10's.

ManaX · Answer

@ update a band, that's awesome :o (btw, I already gave an answer 8 months ago)

amatuer_zombie · Answer

why the f*** should anyone lower their standards tog et what they want...?i don't buy your theory

lily85462155 · Answer

all guys want to score that maxim model..don't they ._.

1991brent · Answer

Well I got a question for you? Lets say this girl that you seen that is really cute came to you and said I liked you, BUT, you got a week to empress me. How would you go about it? Let me know and I could answer your question better.

sarahmolloy · Answer

I think you need to get over yourself. if your this cocky, then girls are lowering their standards to even consider talking to someone who's got his head so far up his own ass.

Meagan88 · Answer

You lost me at Hispanic.

Miguelsgirl09 · Answer

Looks are'nt  everything maybe they found out that you are very shallow. After a while no one can hide their true colors.

TheCheshireCat · Answer

Well, you can always become a Monk :)

Living-the-ADvenTURe · Answer

I feel the exact same way you do, but about guys.

Anonymous · Answer

You are a pig who is way to into himself, grow up.

Anonymous · Answer

wow you sound like a douche.

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