It has been proven that people rate themselves higher than they usually are. Some people think they "settle" because they rate themselves too high. But more often than not, I meet people who think they have met someone within the same attractiveness range. Actually, in reality it has also been proven that women date slightly less attractive men more often than not, typically older, more established men who know what they want from life and are finacially stable. The thing is just that people are not very good at placing themselves on a scale as they tend to think they are.
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I agree with you very much. I asked other people about their ratings of me when I made this question initially.
The issue here is that part of a man's "number" to many woman includes his stability as well as his attractiveness.
The problem is that woman chase after very attractive losers who are not stable at all. And others go after older men who are stable.
I guess I need to wait until I am completly stable and full time employed when I am done with school.
I don't think either has to lower their standards. People have different tastes. If you're with the right person, you're going to both be attracted to each other. No matter what "number" you are to different people. It does seem to be true that there's always one hotter person in the relationship sometimes. I'll admit that. I think that's only because in some relationships, the more "attractive" one actually has a heart and standards and doesn't just go for for looks, and finds someone who has a good personality too, and that person is still attractive to them, sure, but everyone else might think they can get someone better, aka, more phyiscally attractive.
and I think sometimes attractive people lower their standards cause they just want sex and don't care who it's from, or else don't have confidence and don't think highly of themselves.
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Thank you!
I seem to find that an attractive peson with confidence and a personality is hated by many people on here.
Are you seriously saying that you relationships with women are representative of the whole "good looking" male population. You've dated that many women and not one of the relationships has worked out? To me it sounds like you are the problem. Maybe this is the reason your right about the equally shallow 6's who will ignore your personality and because of your "good looks" can't believe they got so lucky. But I'm pretty sure given time this will wear off soon.
Maybe your a narcissist who's also quite shallow, and is going for all the wrong types of women.
(Also stats show that most relationships work out with people who are one point either side of their attractiveness, so 8's can go with 8's, 9's and 7's. Any higher or lower could make either partner insecure or feel like their too good for the relationship.)
P.S and if you look at the results of this test properly, you see that only 4 out of 11 people agree with you. (these results may change later on)
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I am just copying and pasting from the below. I think the response helps as well!
Personality is a GREAT thing to base a relationship on!
Problem is, GIRLS WHO THINK THEY ARE TOO ATTRACTIVE FOR A CERTAIN GUY WILL NEVER GIVE THAT GUY A CHANCE TO HAVE IT BE BASED ON THE PERSONALITY!
This point is my point, and it is solid and unquestionable!
To add, when I say things fizzle, I mean it fizzles before a girl even considers learning about me.
But from my point of view I think I agree. I wouldn't date a guy who I didn't think was that good looking even if I liked his personality. (BUT that is just me. I'm pretty sure I'm a little bit vain but beauty just matters to me and I'm not afraid to admit it.) Although I don't expect a guy to lower their standards for me
Its called female hypergamy. Women tend to date and marry "up". They feel too good for even attractive guys
Women, especially in the US, have an entitlement complex. They think their sh*t doesn't stink. They are so used to have so many options, that even when an attractive guy comes around, they still turn their noses up at him.
Women don't stop this behavior until they get older and no longer look good enough to get away
with it. That's the dead to honest truth about women, and very few women will admit this.
It has gotten to the point where a 7 female feels entitled to 8+ males
An 8 female feels entitled to 9+ males
Females who are 9 and up only want the best of the best alpha males, who are either extraordinarily good looking or rich
Women's value keeps rising, while male's keeps lowering.
i respectfully disagree, just go look on the street, in any magazine, how many younger men do you see with clearly older woman?
how many really lean, toned young guys do you see with tubby GFs?
how many short fat girls do you see with tall stunningly handsome guys?
not many, now reverse the questions and what do you get?
when it comes to physical attractiveness, its usually woman who end up with the thin end of the wedge,
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actually, I COMPLETELY disagree.
How many studly guys do you see with big girls? beyond many
How many guys do you see with slightly older women? many
See, then again, it has very much to do with where you live. Where I used to live, attractive muscular guys with ugly VERY BIG WOMAN was like an epidemic. This was in the south...
I have moved further north. Now, the hottest ladies are with some slightly less attractive then them guys, but still hot. The hot guys are with all ugly girls.
the guy in the realtionship doesn't have to be in a lower standard than the girl if when I am in a realtionship it is nice when the guy is at a higher standard than me becuase it makes me want to stay with him longer and he's really cute so I have sonmmething to look a. you know... if I was dating a guy with a lower standard than its not a vivid prediction that we would go no where if he is not that hot and just average loooking or even may not look attractive to others ti doesn't matter to me its weither I like him for who he is. so the realtionshoips that you have had in the past in my opion did not end because you looked hotter than oyour girl or you had the higher satus or standard in the realtionship it just simply didn't work out . so I wouldn't worry or think to much about dating a girl that is at a lower standard that iu are at.
Let Me be BLUNT...you come off like a totally arrogant, self-interested, egotistical person.
There are PLENTY, PLENTY of women who routinely lower their standards just to have a man. You are taking your personal situation and applying it to the whole.
Next, you go around rating people like they are in a meat market and you're in the meat market too. You are stuck on yourself - why don't you just give it up and date yourself - you are the only one who can measure up to you. Other than that...You can just simply and ONLY go after the 10s ( as you put it ) ...see how far you will get in a relationship...you both will be so in love with yourselves that you won't have love for each other ( or maybe you will ...try it out )
By any means, do not lower your standards...that would be detrimental to most people to be in a relationship with you...REALLY...just go after 10s.
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Please read my new comment about number rating...followed by feeling like an idiot.
Next, I rated myself because I am in the meat market myself... which is exactly my point. again. geeze.
I am sorry that my post hurts your feelings. I am sincerely sorry about that.
I'm always told I'm pretty decent looking yet I only ever seem to get the well below par girls.
I guess its just because around girls in whom I have no interest I'm a more attractive guy. I'm more confident, I'm funnier- I make more jokes at their expense, I'm more laid back. The tone of my voice is probally even deeper.
Sorry if I'm getting a bit into the territory of those PUA d***s here but...the key is to treat hot girls like ugly girls. They're people. They have their faults. They have a sense of humour. Its hard to make yourself do it when you're on the spot and its all about 'omg, gotta be super nice to this girl, she's so hot!'.
What you said is pretty much true bubba. This extremely gorgeous girl I know does not act to guys that are all over her and being SUPER NICE to her (I used to do that). So I started acting like she was just a normal person (unintentionally because I though there was no hope of getting her) And when I didn't pay such great attention to her anymore and acted like I have my own life to deal with...her attraction for me grew. PEOPLE VALUE THINGS THEY CAN'T HAVE.
I don't think you're that bad, just don't worry about it because you're attractive and may be your personality is also very attractive and that's all that matters. The girls are wrong by doing what they're doing. Just a thought occurred to me right now, what if they're playing hard to get meaning want you to make the move first. I don't think it's always the guy who has the lower standards, I'm a girl and I as well do have lower standards as well. You're right, the personality is more important than the physical appearance. My relationship started out with him liking my personality than it was my physical appearance..lol. I don't know if that's true but I don't think so it's true about what your ex had said. Do what my boyfriend did, play hard to get. Don't give the next girl any attention so that way she'll chase you. Hope this helps and all the best to you =)
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Sounds to me like you have to take a step back and really look in the mirror buddy... you're probably not as goodlooking as you think you are. Since you have factored in all your other qualities and interests, maybe you should factor those things in when you look for girls. Maybe then things won't "fizzle out" since you aren't choosing them based on looks alone but on mutual interests and personality. And you say you treat all girls equally.. but every time you're with someone who you deem less attractive than you, you wonder why you have to lower your standards for them. That doesn't sound very equal to me.
I think that guys or girls who aren't super hot add that extra glamour to a guy who's really cute even if his personality isn't all that great just because they're insecure and surprised that they got a hot guy like that. Maybe they worry they'll never find a hot guy like that again who will want them.
Yet, hot guys and girls will reject other hot guys and girls because hot guys and girls often have crappy personalties and are bitches are jerks. But because they know they're hot, they know they don't have to stick around and put up with the sh*t because someone else will want them.
@ Question update...wow, you sound so disgusting and shallow. Men like you are the reason guys get called pigs. I hope your digusting d*** gets an STD.
If your last update is true, I feel sorry for both of these girls. You are obviously shallow, & the fact that you consider cheating an accomplishment shows that you don't deserve any girl. I hope these girls find out , & find themselves a better man. Men like you make me sick!
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I am not dating any girl exclusively. How am I cheating?
in my opinion... yu don't have to "lower your standards" .. you need to realize what you personally are looking for... standards should be qualities and what people want to become and make of themselves and who they are... not for the ton of makeup they wear or how half naked most chicks present themselves these days.. sex appeal shouldn't be the only thing your looking for
Sounds to me as though YOUR standards are too high and you're taking it out on the women who are 9's/10's and can get guys who are 9's/10's
You want a Megan Fox look alike who is an airhead.Good luck with that goal.I'm pretty sure most girls want a Tyson Beckford or David Beckham,but most girls have to settle.
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I think I would go for a hotter megan fox look alike who is a rocket scientist.
Is that rare?
lol
But seriously, I am not doing such a thing.
Guys have to settle most of the time and end up with whatever we can get..and not what we TRULY DESIRE AND DESERVE!
Deserve?If you're ugly you get ugly.If you're attractive you get attractive.Men don't settle,women do.Despite the belief that women do not care about looks,we do,unfortunately,the good looking men aren't exactly brainiacs and we up up left with the rest.
When you look like David Beckham complain then,as far as I'm concerned,you're just an average joe and I'm sure you're settling because you have no other options
lollllll I'm hotter than megan fox, I'm an engineer and the world hasn't seen my goods LOLLLL omg... these posts are hilarious! peoples bad taste in the opposite sex and insecurities are flying all over the place!its simple really To Girls: Enough whining about men-stop looking for jerks and you will get a nice guy that doesn't just care about your looks --To Guys: As long as your p***s is making your selection of women- you will not be entirely happy.. you gotta use your brain once in a while!
A girl of "good quality", could be a six by looks and a 10 by personality. And seeing how your question bursts with superficiality and arrogance, that "six" is way out of your league.
You just keep looking for love like this. I'm sure there is a girl out there, who will be happy to bring her own mirror when she moves in.
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a girl who is happy to bring her own mirror? Ha, so I guess the only mirror in the house is being used up by me all the time looking at myself.
nice.
A 6 by looks and a 10 by personality would make her an "8" which would make me happy with her.
No a six by looks and a 10 by personality would make her a 10. As long as you can be attracted to her, what kind of person she is, is all that matters. If you don't think so, then I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be happy with you.
Maybe the girls that gave you the official 8 rating, didn't want to hurt your feelings so they agreed with you, women are like that.
And where I live, the gyms are all filled with males with nice builds, and few women. On the streets I always see guys in shape with obese women. I always feel sorry for the guys.
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Yup. I see guys in shape with obese women MUCH more often then I see in shape beautiful women with obese men.
I think in the very wealthy world there is plenty of the hot women with OK men. But the OK men are very smart and SUPER WEALTHY. But in the rest of the world, men take care of themselves, and work out and work jobs while women do not do very much.Also, I asked multiple girls what rating, and I did not suggest that I was an 8. I asked them openly. If every girl lied I am at least a 7
I'm a beautiful girl and I consider myself a 9, but all kinds of guys have fallen in love with me and thought I'm like the most beautiful girl lol but what I see missing in hot guys is sincerity and romance and plus they usually have a lot of "miles" which I'm not fond of since I'm not in the same boat. there are however a lot of girls that dating is like climbing a ladder for them. its really sad actually. so my guess is that the cute girls you want are probably stupid and leave you for a guy that's ready to buy her something or you're giving them too much importance.. for some reason girls like jerks often. I would go for a guy not so attractive as long as he has a great mind, that's number 1 for me... all I know is don't lower your standrds because you won't be happy.
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I have Bachelors and Masters degrees. Does that count as a great mind?
jp.
But seriously, the lot of "miles" thing is funny. I think people with lots of "miles" just like to get together!
Can you explain yourself better? You said that you hit on girls anywhere between "6" to "9" and that they they like you to varying degrees, but that it doesn't work out. What standards are you lowering (or do you feel like you have to lower)? It sounds to me that you just haven't found someone that you really clicked with and that it probably has nothing to do with where you see them on a rating scale in terms of looks.
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The girls that make themselves more easily available to me are the less attractive ones.
I am not one to base who I desire by how attractive they are, but the less attractive girls ALWAYS give me much more attention when I show interest in them. Therefore, I come to the conclusion that girls are basing their interest solely upon attractiveness.
It may not work out every time, but it is easy to tell which girls are making themselves more available to me!
This doesn`t seem like a matter of you having to lower your standards, but rather that dating "hotter" girls is more work. It takes more "convincing" to get them to like you (probably because they have a larger number of potential partners to choose from) and to keep them. Less attractive girls might be a little less choosy because they don't have as many guys asking them out. You don't HAVE to lower your standards if you don't want to, but the hotter the girl, the more competition you'll have.
1) Have you been watching one too many episodes of "How I Met Your Mother" because your attitude sounds a little too much like Barney. Not that I don't find him funny, but he's a bit of an ass.
2) You tend to contradict yourself. You say that personality matters most but all you seem to care about are looks. It's great to be confidant and have a healthy self-esteem but you seem to think that you are God's gift to women. Maybe that's why the quality 9's just aren't into you. I know you said that you are dating two such 9's and had sex with one but I question whether they are the quality 9's that I am talking about.
3) From your attitude, I would say that the girls would be settling if they are with you. I'm not a bitch, I just don't like your attitude.
Nobody should settle to be in a relationship or lower their standards. The best thing about being individuals is we all see beauty differently. You might think someone is an 8, and your best friend thinks she is a 2. Beauty is truly skin deep and in the eye of the beholder. Stop focusing on whether someone is just a number and try connecting with them on another level. If you really were all about the personality, then the numbers wouldn't really exist.
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read my new comment about numbers.
Also, I would hypothesize nobody could get a 2 and an 8 confused.
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It has been proven that people rate themselves higher than they usually are. Some people think they "settle" because they rate themselves too high. But more often than not, I meet people who think they have met someone within the same attractiveness range. Actually, in reality it has also been proven that women date slightly less attractive men more often than not, typically older, more established men who know what they want from life and are finacially stable. The thing is just that people are not very good at placing themselves on a scale as they tend to think they are.
I agree with you very much. I asked other people about their ratings of me when I made this question initially.
The issue here is that part of a man's "number" to many woman includes his stability as well as his attractiveness.
The problem is that woman chase after very attractive losers who are not stable at all. And others go after older men who are stable.
I guess I need to wait until I am completly stable and full time employed when I am done with school.
I will likely update then.
For every type of man there is a woman for them, relationships tend to last longer when you get past the age of 25 and up.
I don't think either has to lower their standards. People have different tastes. If you're with the right person, you're going to both be attracted to each other. No matter what "number" you are to different people. It does seem to be true that there's always one hotter person in the relationship sometimes. I'll admit that. I think that's only because in some relationships, the more "attractive" one actually has a heart and standards and doesn't just go for for looks, and finds someone who has a good personality too, and that person is still attractive to them, sure, but everyone else might think they can get someone better, aka, more phyiscally attractive.
and I think sometimes attractive people lower their standards cause they just want sex and don't care who it's from, or else don't have confidence and don't think highly of themselves.
Thank you!
I seem to find that an attractive peson with confidence and a personality is hated by many people on here.
Great answer!
Are you seriously saying that you relationships with women are representative of the whole "good looking" male population. You've dated that many women and not one of the relationships has worked out? To me it sounds like you are the problem. Maybe this is the reason your right about the equally shallow 6's who will ignore your personality and because of your "good looks" can't believe they got so lucky. But I'm pretty sure given time this will wear off soon.
Maybe your a narcissist who's also quite shallow, and is going for all the wrong types of women.
(Also stats show that most relationships work out with people who are one point either side of their attractiveness, so 8's can go with 8's, 9's and 7's. Any higher or lower could make either partner insecure or feel like their too good for the relationship.)
P.S and if you look at the results of this test properly, you see that only 4 out of 11 people agree with you. (these results may change later on)
I am just copying and pasting from the below. I think the response helps as well!
Personality is a GREAT thing to base a relationship on!
Problem is, GIRLS WHO THINK THEY ARE TOO ATTRACTIVE FOR A CERTAIN GUY WILL NEVER GIVE THAT GUY A CHANCE TO HAVE IT BE BASED ON THE PERSONALITY!
This point is my point, and it is solid and unquestionable!
To add, when I say things fizzle, I mean it fizzles before a girl even considers learning about me.
But from my point of view I think I agree. I wouldn't date a guy who I didn't think was that good looking even if I liked his personality. (BUT that is just me. I'm pretty sure I'm a little bit vain but beauty just matters to me and I'm not afraid to admit it.) Although I don't expect a guy to lower their standards for me
yay, an Honest lady! I like you! :-)
Its called female hypergamy. Women tend to date and marry "up". They feel too good for even attractive guys
Women, especially in the US, have an entitlement complex. They think their sh*t doesn't stink. They are so used to have so many options, that even when an attractive guy comes around, they still turn their noses up at him.
Women don't stop this behavior until they get older and no longer look good enough to get away
with it. That's the dead to honest truth about women, and very few women will admit this.
It has gotten to the point where a 7 female feels entitled to 8+ males
An 8 female feels entitled to 9+ males
Females who are 9 and up only want the best of the best alpha males, who are either extraordinarily good looking or rich
Women's value keeps rising, while male's keeps lowering.
amen
Actually, a large amount of what you said has lead me to want a foreign girl!
So many American girls act like they are SUCH HOT SHIT if they are thin, and pretty. It is really insane!
My father recently said this very wise thing.
"the worst word ever invented is entitlement"
This is also true, But this is titled for the really immature women.
i respectfully disagree, just go look on the street, in any magazine, how many younger men do you see with clearly older woman?
how many really lean, toned young guys do you see with tubby GFs?
how many short fat girls do you see with tall stunningly handsome guys?
not many, now reverse the questions and what do you get?
when it comes to physical attractiveness, its usually woman who end up with the thin end of the wedge,
actually, I COMPLETELY disagree.
How many studly guys do you see with big girls? beyond many
How many guys do you see with slightly older women? many
See, then again, it has very much to do with where you live. Where I used to live, attractive muscular guys with ugly VERY BIG WOMAN was like an epidemic. This was in the south...
I have moved further north. Now, the hottest ladies are with some slightly less attractive then them guys, but still hot. The hot guys are with all ugly girls.
I agree with the question asker!
the guy in the realtionship doesn't have to be in a lower standard than the girl if when I am in a realtionship it is nice when the guy is at a higher standard than me becuase it makes me want to stay with him longer and he's really cute so I have sonmmething to look a. you know... if I was dating a guy with a lower standard than its not a vivid prediction that we would go no where if he is not that hot and just average loooking or even may not look attractive to others ti doesn't matter to me its weither I like him for who he is. so the realtionshoips that you have had in the past in my opion did not end because you looked hotter than oyour girl or you had the higher satus or standard in the realtionship it just simply didn't work out . so I wouldn't worry or think to much about dating a girl that is at a lower standard that iu are at.
Let Me be BLUNT...you come off like a totally arrogant, self-interested, egotistical person.
There are PLENTY, PLENTY of women who routinely lower their standards just to have a man. You are taking your personal situation and applying it to the whole.
Next, you go around rating people like they are in a meat market and you're in the meat market too. You are stuck on yourself - why don't you just give it up and date yourself - you are the only one who can measure up to you. Other than that...You can just simply and ONLY go after the 10s ( as you put it ) ...see how far you will get in a relationship...you both will be so in love with yourselves that you won't have love for each other ( or maybe you will ...try it out )
By any means, do not lower your standards...that would be detrimental to most people to be in a relationship with you...REALLY...just go after 10s.
Please read my new comment about number rating...followed by feeling like an idiot.
Next, I rated myself because I am in the meat market myself... which is exactly my point. again. geeze.
I am sorry that my post hurts your feelings. I am sincerely sorry about that.
Agree with you here.
I'm always told I'm pretty decent looking yet I only ever seem to get the well below par girls.
I guess its just because around girls in whom I have no interest I'm a more attractive guy. I'm more confident, I'm funnier- I make more jokes at their expense, I'm more laid back. The tone of my voice is probally even deeper.
Sorry if I'm getting a bit into the territory of those PUA d***s here but...the key is to treat hot girls like ugly girls. They're people. They have their faults. They have a sense of humour. Its hard to make yourself do it when you're on the spot and its all about 'omg, gotta be super nice to this girl, she's so hot!'.
What you said is pretty much true bubba. This extremely gorgeous girl I know does not act to guys that are all over her and being SUPER NICE to her (I used to do that). So I started acting like she was just a normal person (unintentionally because I though there was no hope of getting her) And when I didn't pay such great attention to her anymore and acted like I have my own life to deal with...her attraction for me grew. PEOPLE VALUE THINGS THEY CAN'T HAVE.
I don't think you're that bad, just don't worry about it because you're attractive and may be your personality is also very attractive and that's all that matters. The girls are wrong by doing what they're doing. Just a thought occurred to me right now, what if they're playing hard to get meaning want you to make the move first. I don't think it's always the guy who has the lower standards, I'm a girl and I as well do have lower standards as well. You're right, the personality is more important than the physical appearance. My relationship started out with him liking my personality than it was my physical appearance..lol. I don't know if that's true but I don't think so it's true about what your ex had said. Do what my boyfriend did, play hard to get. Don't give the next girl any attention so that way she'll chase you. Hope this helps and all the best to you =)
Sounds to me like you have to take a step back and really look in the mirror buddy... you're probably not as goodlooking as you think you are. Since you have factored in all your other qualities and interests, maybe you should factor those things in when you look for girls. Maybe then things won't "fizzle out" since you aren't choosing them based on looks alone but on mutual interests and personality. And you say you treat all girls equally.. but every time you're with someone who you deem less attractive than you, you wonder why you have to lower your standards for them. That doesn't sound very equal to me.
Maybe your small d*** is an issue there too?
8 inches.
I think that guys or girls who aren't super hot add that extra glamour to a guy who's really cute even if his personality isn't all that great just because they're insecure and surprised that they got a hot guy like that. Maybe they worry they'll never find a hot guy like that again who will want them.
Yet, hot guys and girls will reject other hot guys and girls because hot guys and girls often have crappy personalties and are bitches are jerks. But because they know they're hot, they know they don't have to stick around and put up with the sh*t because someone else will want them.
ok, interesting answer. thanks!
why did you go under anonymous?
@ Question update...wow, you sound so disgusting and shallow. Men like you are the reason guys get called pigs. I hope your digusting d*** gets an STD.
If your last update is true, I feel sorry for both of these girls. You are obviously shallow, & the fact that you consider cheating an accomplishment shows that you don't deserve any girl. I hope these girls find out , & find themselves a better man. Men like you make me sick!
I am not dating any girl exclusively. How am I cheating?
in my opinion... yu don't have to "lower your standards" .. you need to realize what you personally are looking for... standards should be qualities and what people want to become and make of themselves and who they are... not for the ton of makeup they wear or how half naked most chicks present themselves these days.. sex appeal shouldn't be the only thing your looking for
i agree.
great answer
Sounds to me as though YOUR standards are too high and you're taking it out on the women who are 9's/10's and can get guys who are 9's/10's
You want a Megan Fox look alike who is an airhead.Good luck with that goal.I'm pretty sure most girls want a Tyson Beckford or David Beckham,but most girls have to settle.
I think I would go for a hotter megan fox look alike who is a rocket scientist.
Is that rare?
lol
But seriously, I am not doing such a thing.
Guys have to settle most of the time and end up with whatever we can get..and not what we TRULY DESIRE AND DESERVE!
Deserve?If you're ugly you get ugly.If you're attractive you get attractive.Men don't settle,women do.Despite the belief that women do not care about looks,we do,unfortunately,the good looking men aren't exactly brainiacs and we up up left with the rest.
When you look like David Beckham complain then,as far as I'm concerned,you're just an average joe and I'm sure you're settling because you have no other options
im good looking and I'm a braniac
There are a plethora of very attractive men who are also very smart.
The problem is that ladies seem to also push guys away that they know they do not deserve.
Understanding that all woman are pretty much prettier than men it does SEEM that woman always settle. Unfortunately, men most often settle!
The reason it appears that there are so many super model hot woman with ugly guys, is for two reasons.
Reason one: rich men get pretty woman and when you see it it grabs attention every time.
Again,women have to settle too.Judging by your whining you don't deserve anything but someone on your level.
I will totally settle for someone on my level. This is my point.
thanks.
lollllll I'm hotter than megan fox, I'm an engineer and the world hasn't seen my goods LOLLLL omg... these posts are hilarious! peoples bad taste in the opposite sex and insecurities are flying all over the place!its simple really To Girls: Enough whining about men-stop looking for jerks and you will get a nice guy that doesn't just care about your looks --To Guys: As long as your p***s is making your selection of women- you will not be entirely happy.. you gotta use your brain once in a while!
Wow... Can you be any more superficial? o.O
A girl of "good quality", could be a six by looks and a 10 by personality. And seeing how your question bursts with superficiality and arrogance, that "six" is way out of your league.
You just keep looking for love like this. I'm sure there is a girl out there, who will be happy to bring her own mirror when she moves in.
a girl who is happy to bring her own mirror? Ha, so I guess the only mirror in the house is being used up by me all the time looking at myself.
nice.
A 6 by looks and a 10 by personality would make her an "8" which would make me happy with her.
thanks for your answer!
No a six by looks and a 10 by personality would make her a 10. As long as you can be attracted to her, what kind of person she is, is all that matters. If you don't think so, then I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be happy with you.
Maybe the girls that gave you the official 8 rating, didn't want to hurt your feelings so they agreed with you, women are like that.
And where I live, the gyms are all filled with males with nice builds, and few women. On the streets I always see guys in shape with obese women. I always feel sorry for the guys.
Yup. I see guys in shape with obese women MUCH more often then I see in shape beautiful women with obese men.
I think in the very wealthy world there is plenty of the hot women with OK men. But the OK men are very smart and SUPER WEALTHY. But in the rest of the world, men take care of themselves, and work out and work jobs while women do not do very much.Also, I asked multiple girls what rating, and I did not suggest that I was an 8. I asked them openly. If every girl lied I am at least a 7
I'm a beautiful girl and I consider myself a 9, but all kinds of guys have fallen in love with me and thought I'm like the most beautiful girl lol but what I see missing in hot guys is sincerity and romance and plus they usually have a lot of "miles" which I'm not fond of since I'm not in the same boat. there are however a lot of girls that dating is like climbing a ladder for them. its really sad actually. so my guess is that the cute girls you want are probably stupid and leave you for a guy that's ready to buy her something or you're giving them too much importance.. for some reason girls like jerks often. I would go for a guy not so attractive as long as he has a great mind, that's number 1 for me... all I know is don't lower your standrds because you won't be happy.
I have Bachelors and Masters degrees. Does that count as a great mind?
jp.
But seriously, the lot of "miles" thing is funny. I think people with lots of "miles" just like to get together!
You seem like quite the catch. :-)
Can you explain yourself better? You said that you hit on girls anywhere between "6" to "9" and that they they like you to varying degrees, but that it doesn't work out. What standards are you lowering (or do you feel like you have to lower)? It sounds to me that you just haven't found someone that you really clicked with and that it probably has nothing to do with where you see them on a rating scale in terms of looks.
The girls that make themselves more easily available to me are the less attractive ones.
I am not one to base who I desire by how attractive they are, but the less attractive girls ALWAYS give me much more attention when I show interest in them. Therefore, I come to the conclusion that girls are basing their interest solely upon attractiveness.
It may not work out every time, but it is easy to tell which girls are making themselves more available to me!
This doesn`t seem like a matter of you having to lower your standards, but rather that dating "hotter" girls is more work. It takes more "convincing" to get them to like you (probably because they have a larger number of potential partners to choose from) and to keep them. Less attractive girls might be a little less choosy because they don't have as many guys asking them out. You don't HAVE to lower your standards if you don't want to, but the hotter the girl, the more competition you'll have.
I have a few comments for you.
1) Have you been watching one too many episodes of "How I Met Your Mother" because your attitude sounds a little too much like Barney. Not that I don't find him funny, but he's a bit of an ass.
2) You tend to contradict yourself. You say that personality matters most but all you seem to care about are looks. It's great to be confidant and have a healthy self-esteem but you seem to think that you are God's gift to women. Maybe that's why the quality 9's just aren't into you. I know you said that you are dating two such 9's and had sex with one but I question whether they are the quality 9's that I am talking about.
3) From your attitude, I would say that the girls would be settling if they are with you. I'm not a bitch, I just don't like your attitude.
thanks
Nobody should settle to be in a relationship or lower their standards. The best thing about being individuals is we all see beauty differently. You might think someone is an 8, and your best friend thinks she is a 2. Beauty is truly skin deep and in the eye of the beholder. Stop focusing on whether someone is just a number and try connecting with them on another level. If you really were all about the personality, then the numbers wouldn't really exist.
read my new comment about numbers.
Also, I would hypothesize nobody could get a 2 and an 8 confused.