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29F and I’ve always questioned how almost every pretty woman I’ve come across is always in a relationship with an equally attractive guy. When I was chubby younger, I thought losing weight would solve everything and it hasn’t. I feel like regardless of what anyone else says, I’ll always wholeheartedly believe attractive women have no issue finding a partner & they have life easier. I’ve been told I’m attractive by a variety of people for most of my life, even when I was chubby. I’m not thin, 5’7 women’s US 10 so midsize but I have that thicker thigh/flatter stomach build. The only time I get attention from guys I find attractive are on dating apps and that’s not telling in my opinion. I’ve been told this guy looked at me/this guy found me attractive from other people but the guy never makes it known to me. And there’s been very very few times where I would see an attractive guy making eye contact with me or at least caught my gaze but I just look away b/c I don’t see the point. I’m anxious/reserved but a lot of people with anxiety are in fulfilling relationships

They always used to say *if a boy is mean to you, it means he likes you*. So I can see how this could’ve been the case when we were younger, even back then as a middle schooler I was kind of turned off by this logic. Yes, I’m a sensitive person but this method throws me off. If you’re in HS then yes this approach is more expected or you can say it’s all you know. If you’re still doing this well into your adult years then yea…it’s time to switch your game up🤷🏻‍♀️. I just find it to be kind of immature, a grown man can find better ways to let a woman know he’s into her. Don’t hurt me in the comments please