I would trade everything I own to have my confidence back?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what happened or when it happened but I became a nobody once I moved States. I'm an average looking black guy but to some ssbbw white women I'm their dream man.. anyways I lost my confidence I can't think of a single thing to say to women whether she's average looking or drop dead gorgeous. I used to be able to cold approach any women in the world without worrying about rejection and I would consider myself waaaay uglier back then but I was funny and had confidence. Nowadays I'm the definition of a mute.. I've worked at my job for years and some change now and I'm pretty sure nobody coworkers in diff departments dont my name and I don't know there's because walking up and having condos with people is just not in me.. what is it I can do to boost my confidence back up? Or how could I build myself up just to say a freaking hello? I know y'all are gonna go gym route. But I just dont have the commitment so anything else helps..

[Avicenna]

Get used to talking to people you don’t have romantic interest in, it will get you back in practice of talking with strangers.