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My older sister's former tormentors are now her MIL and SIL. They treated her horrible when she and her now husband were in their 1st year of their relationship. Many years ago.

Even though the tormentors apologized and expressed remorse, followed by actions over the years, can a human truly have such a forgiving heart?

I get that she forgive but she also now has a close, great relationship with them. Is that possible, to forgive and forget to the point of really adoring/liking them?

Once you know them, it is like they have an unnatural hold on you.

They invade your thoughts, even feels like your soul, and yet at the same time they offer peace, love, comfort and patience.

Even looking at them, their eyes or face can mesmerize you into a trance like state, before you know them.

They radiate something out of them, that is unexplainable.

They seem extremely rare, but I think I have met at least one in my life, possibly two or three. No doubt due to everything I've been through.

Some others have even called me one, but they leave a lasting impression without even trying.

Your life is forever changed for better or worse, simply by knowing them and nothing more.


Have you ever met someone who has had these kind of effects on you?

Who was it?

As for me, my first true love who helped me through so many things.

I would not be here without him. He was so magical, and I miss him so much 😪 even all these years later.

He passed on from this life 😇 but not before touching my soul ✨ and forever changing me.

I have no doubt he would be disappointed in me for the things I've done since, but at the same time he would hug me and forgive without hesitation while reaching into my soul to remove the pain and give me comfort.

Te extraño mi amor

This is the irony of my life. The very same person that treated me horrible (bullying included too, trying to destroy my reputation and many other things) ended up saving me in the end.

I hate to admit it but I'm alive because of that very same person. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for that person shoving me away danger. The person could've died by a couple secods late, barely got out on time. I wasn't going to forgive if it wasn't for that.

I think in that case, what more can I ask for? If the very person nearly died saving you and you're alive because of them, is all debt repaid? Is that an enough apology?

*Skip this if you don’t believe in God*

I believed God exists because without him I wouldn’t regret what I had done wrong. He showed me the right path and is very forgiving of me. I sometimes hate myself for hurting others because it’s against God’s will. I realised that I shouldn’t follow societal expectations of women, like how I should look to please lots of men. I don’t follow trends and I don’t follow celebs and beauty trends, I didn’t buy luxury goods too. I realised if I were to follow them till I die, I will have to face God myself and I might end up in hell. I’m someone who would rather listen to God than random people telling me what I should do when I’m not like them. I’m not against people who don’t believe in God. The reason why I came back to God is because of how messed up the world is and God made me see the positive side of things.

I prayed to God every single day thanking him for keeping me alive and safe whenever I go out. I may not be rich but I’m perfectly happy with what I have rather than worry about what I didn’t have that most rich people can afford. God gave me a choice whether to follow him or go against him which is what I loved about him. I do faced judgements from random strangers because I’m not following trends but I just ignore them and live my life because what matters me the most is I follow God’s ways. God only sees how good a person’s heart is while many people tend to see how a person looks physically which is sadly true, if not why would the handsome men and beautiful women get so many people trying to make a move on them? I’m a low maintenance girl living a minimalist lifestyle.