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So I started dating this guy. We've really only gone for coffee nothing sexual. I find that he's quite passive aggressive and not necessarily open in his communication.

I don't like passive aggressive people or people that aren't good communicators. Yes I get not everyone is a good communicator but if you're not going to communicate stuff don't turn around and blame another person as this guy is done for not understanding what's going on or getting confused and frustrated.

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I have kept seeing him simply for the fact that the potential benefits, like we have similar interests we have similar mentality similar upbringing, could potentially outweigh the communication Style. Maybe he needs a little work.

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Anyway last night he said that he had to work late. That doesn't make any sense because in his job the only time he works late is when it is an emergency situation. But what it sounded like was just casual everyday work and that usually ends at 5:00 or 6:00... 7:00 at the latest.

He was still out until around 11:30 cuz he text me saying he was going home.

Anyway this morning I found out his Communications style has changed it's a little more standoffish and not as engaging as usual. Like I said he already had ticks against him that in my mind were quite severe/ this passive aggressiveness and lack of communication.

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But I don't know if I should reach out as usual communication or if that will come across as desperate or just you know wait and see what he does

I broke things off with him cause it was never gonna become anything besides a situationship and I waited a year on him but when I gave up and started sleeping with someone else he said I was for the streets and if I was looking for potential in someone else. I started talking to him after I broke up with my abusive ex that wouldn't stop stalking me. He asked me out but he didn't want a relationship like I thought after we talked for 3 months, he was working on myself. I liked him a lot so I thought I could wait until he changed his mind but I waited a year and he never did. I started seeing someone else after he got too busy to hang out anymore after his new job. I told him I started seeing someone else after we didn't talk for 2 months , well I called and texted him hut he was either busy or tired to talk so I stopped he texted me after and then got mad when I started seeing someone else and said I was for the streets. I broke things off a week later and that was his response.