My wife and I have been married for a few months but have been together for 6 years total. Started out friends, then began dating. In the beginning of us dating she went and slept with this prior guy for a weekend. She was his side chick. It hurt because we were technically together. Maybe exclusive maybe not. Anyway, for a good year I was mad about it. But part of me really gets turned on by it. Over the years I dropped hints that I thought it would be exciting if she went to f**k this guy again. I’m pretty sure she hooked up with him at least once more about 6 months after and def when we were “exclusive “. It’s okay, I’ve slept with a few girls myself. This past week I told her I would really think it was fun for her to sleep with this guy. She loves arrogant a-holes. But she flat out refuses. Sometimes she says maybe a day will come when she changes her mind but she refuses with this guy. However, when I dirty talk about it in bed, about this particular guy, she gets super wet. Wetter than I’ve ever seen her under any occasion. I’m a sexual deviant and get turned on with my SO banging other people. How do I get her there too? And be honest about jt? I feel like it’s in stuck mode
Now, I get turned on by the thought of her being with others.
I don’t need a lecture from the morality police. If you have a lecture save it for someone else