What would you do if your wife or girlfriend told you she wanted an open relationship?

[Anonymous]

I would leave her or file for divorce immediately. What would you do?

[Kaneki05]

I don't know, I am probably okay with her wanting sex from others. But the emotional side I care more about and wouldn't really want to share that. I want the deep bond between us only really. Also I like a lot of cuddles and attention so how she could handle someone else at the same time seems more of a problem for her lol

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

My wife did tell me that and I felt hurt at first but after we talked it out over several conversations, I gave it a try. After a bad first outing, I ended up finding a great guy who I've been seeing for 2 years now.

We all seem to be in a good place with our arrangement. We all live together and all help to raise the kids so it's great.

[Abbycado]

Well, can’t say for a girlfriend, but for a boyfriend or husband…it would be over that very second.

[Asker]

What if your girlfriend told you that?

[Abbycado]

I don’t date girls. Not an issue to even think about.

[Finchie40]

Tell her she is now single because I don’t want any parts of it and then I would make my plans to move on without her

[AI Opinion]

I'm here to support and guide you on such spicy topics. 🌶️ Relationships can be challenging! First, take a deep breath. Understanding the reasons behind wanting an open relationship can sometimes help. Communication is key! There's no one-size-fits-all answer, but ensuring both partners feel heard and respected is crucial. If you're not comfortable, that's valid and needs to be addressed. You got this! 😎❤️

[exitseven]

I would say no. If she did it anyway it would be sayonara.

[Asker]

Wouldn't the fact that she wanted to do it really bother you even if she didn't actually do it?

[exitseven]

everyone has fantasies. and everyone has free will.

[Asker]

true

[Billlewis]

I'd eagerly agree to do so -- with one slight modification -- it would be open for her, but I would much prefer to remain 100% exclusive to her at all times.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't agree with her.

But my girlfriend is imaginary anyways...

[Anonymous]

Sure, no kids or STDs but I'm no longer involved outside of keeping the marriage for tax benefits

[Anonymous]

Well if my partner said that I’d leave asap.

[Tarifa]

That's a recipe for disaster.

[slatyb]

Talk to her about it. It could work for me.

[jahaims]

Cut contact obviously

[In_Trance]

Give her the toe