I broke things off with him cause it was never gonna become anything besides a situationship and I waited a year on him but when I gave up and started sleeping with someone else he said I was for the streets and if I was looking for potential in someone else. I started talking to him after I broke up with my abusive ex that wouldn't stop stalking me. He asked me out but he didn't want a relationship like I thought after we talked for 3 months, he was working on myself. I liked him a lot so I thought I could wait until he changed his mind but I waited a year and he never did. I started seeing someone else after he got too busy to hang out anymore after his new job. I told him I started seeing someone else after we didn't talk for 2 months , well I called and texted him hut he was either busy or tired to talk so I stopped he texted me after and then got mad when I started seeing someone else and said I was for the streets. I broke things off a week later and that was his response.
I chose that he doesn't care, but let me clarify. He doesn't care about YOU as a person, only about the free pussy. Hence his stupid tantrum.
Advice for the future? Stay away from fwbs and situationships. When guys get free sex they have NO incentive to be in a committed relationship, and except for the longest of long shots, it ain't happenin.
Girls always foolishly think "he will come around" or "he will fall in love with me if I fuck him good enough". If anyone ever says they need to "work on themselves" you should head the opposite direction. It's the main excuse for commitment phobes, and it's utter bullshit. It's become the new: "It's not you, it's me."
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I'd say he's over everything
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It means he doesn’t care, do whatever you want. Secretly he does care, but he won’t want you to see that he does. He’ll be hurt that you didn’t wait longer or chase after him more. But if that’s truly how it was between you and him, then he kinda did it to himself.
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It means he's banging your sister now.
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