Search Results: how to get guys to approach me

Why isn’t he telling me?

My guy friend I used to like, and who I thought liked me back, has a crush on this girl. (Now bear in mind this guy and I are close friends) Yet all our and his other friends seem to know about it and who she is, yet...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to approach him via instagram dm?

So, there is a guy i spotted in someones instagram following. Yes, its a random instagram user from my city i dont know at all and have mever met in my life and probably won't. I became intrested in him by seehing his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

So can anybody tell me is it even worth trying to date an FY1 Junior Doctor?

I work in a hospital and in the current rotation of newbie Junior Doctors in my department, there’s an absolutely gorgeous guy who keeps staring and smiling at me. Whenever he passes me in the corridor he smiles and makes...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guys, How to approach a guy in public?

Hey guys, I've been thinking a lot about how to approach a man in public. Many dating coaches suggest that women shouldn't be straightforward and should just give men a tiny little push and let the men finish the job....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, how do you feel around your friends after you dumped someone?

Some fellow student was seemingly too eager with a common female friend yet she was and still is going through a breakup healing, resulting in her having to dump him. Another friend of mine said in his opinion another guy...

scooogy

Master Age: 34

Relationships

Heal myself from my past?

I'm 23. Never been in a relationship. Growing up, I was overweight & got bodyshamed by my family since the age of 11/12. I never really got a lot of guys attention as a teenager. When I was 19, I lost about 25+ lbs & lots...

Anonymous

(25-29)

If you install dating apps on and off every couple of months, is that an indication you actually want a relationship?

29F, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’m under the impression that I want a relationship as I install apps on and off. I’m at the point where I get drained when they’re installed & when I’m not in the mood...

Anonymous

(30-35)

29F, I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’m under the impression that I want a relationship as I install apps on and off. I’m at the point where I get drained when they’re

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Confused About a Crush: Seeking Advice?

Hey there, I wanted to get your opinion on something that's been on my mind. There's this guy at school I have a crush on. Recently, I mustered up the courage to approach him. I told him I had seen him around and that I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did he wait to announce his relationship till after my last day?

I had a crush on a guy in my office. We flirted back and forth for about a year. At one point I asked him out because I thought he was just being shy. He told me he didn’t think we were compatible and would have to say...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I doing something wrong and is there’s something wrong with me?

I’m 22 and I never had a boyfriend before and I never been asked out on a date. I just feel like I only attract guys that want to get something out of me, and not a good way. I’m quite and softspoken, and I get use to you...

s_lynn22

Xper 4 Age: 24

Do guys really find "cute" girls attractive?

I get told most of the time that I'm cute, baby-faced and pretty. Sometimes people tell me I look 13 (I'm actually 24) which feels like an insult as if I'm a kid rather than a grown lady. I have a small frame, but an...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, What’s the best way to approach a girl?

I’m always out and about and see cute girls while running errands. I really have no reason to talk to them and would have to walk out of my way to approach them. I don’t want to be creepy and put them on the spot but I...

RandomAverageGuy

Xper 1 Age: 25

Why are some guys so persistent annoying when chasing women?

I not been in clubs or festivals often. A few days I been with a group of friends and while I wasn't suprised how often some of my female friends got approached it were 90% of the time done by guys who dont take a hint....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, when do guys ask for girls number?

I've just been wondering since I have friends who are constantly getting approached by guys and getting asked for their insta / numbers but then again on the other side I have absolutely beautiful friends who have never...

Xalia

Xper 2 Age: 26

What are some eye contact signs a girl gives to a guy that she wants him to approach?

In a gym. I get a lot of women holding eye contact with me with no facial expression. And they continue to hold even after I catch them. Tell me some signs. Also what’s with this girl? In the gym a Girl kept locking her...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it just me or do hugs from the opposite gender feel different than the same gender?

I have a thing for being hugged, and hugs from boys are fine, but I like hugs from girls a little better. I was taught in kindergarten that hugs are only for relatives, and the rule is don’t hug or accept hugs from non...

Louis-Deger

Xper 5 Age: 27

Guys what strategies do you employ in order to approach a ton of women and eliminate anxiety and nervousness with women?

Do you just walk around town asking girls out? Do you try to talk to them or do you just give them your number? Do you go to a bar or the library? Do you make a day of it or do you try to do it all the time? Stuff...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to ask a guy (28M) that I (23F) slept with once for a hook up / to be friends with benefits? (We haven’t texted for 2 weeks)?

He approached me 3 weeks ago at bar event, got my #, suggested we go for breakfast in the morning. I went home with him, was exhausted by time we got there. He put me to bed, I fell asleep. He didn’t make a move. I felt...

ElizabethEmery

Xper 5 Age: 27