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27F, I hate to describe this as daddy issues. For the most part, my dad and I have gotten along. My parents divorced when I was 8, after that he started to take his frustrations out on me (mom cheated). At around 23 I got tired of it, I moved out of state to live w my gma at 13 but we talked over phone. I pretty much said fuck him and didn’t talk to him for three years. My parents are still good friends, my mom has been with the same guy and my dad is single I think.

For over a year, my dad and I rekindled. He seemed to change with me, I think he knows I’m not taking that anymore and we never argue. But I’m irritated when he calls too often. My mom can call me whenever (I have resentment towards her too) and I have no prob. My dad calls too frequently (more than once a week) and I get irritated.

He just annoys me, he asks me the same questions frequently and I put him in his place lol. I know he remembers, my mom blames it on him not knowing what to say to me. My dad doesn’t have a good relationship with his family, everyone always makes the excuse that I’m all he has. My moms family is shit too but I guess she has a boyfriend and 2 other kids.

What frustrates me is that really isn’t my fault, I always think what if I was married or had kids. I would have to coddle and make time for my dad then too? I’m single, no friends and don’t feel like I need to talk to my parents that often.

TL;DR: am I being too harsh with my dads need to talk with me often?

I remembered last time I posted a question on GAG and I did received a capital letter comment like “SHAVE YOUR PUBES!!!” I felt he has no right to tell me what I should do to my body if my boyfriend is fine with it then so be it. I don’t need some random stranger to tell me what I should do to my own body. He thinks he can brainwash me into doing things I didn’t like doing lol. He’s the definition of an incel, since he thinks he can force women to fit his preferences. A guy like him will never get a good woman as a girlfriend or wife. I’m not trying to brag but I found the right guy who doesn’t have a preference when it comes to body hair, I would rather be married to my boyfriend than be with that guy. Incels are obviously not relationship and marriage material. I will not force my boyfriend to fit into my preferences as it’s something an entitled bitch will do.