All men eventually cheat?

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one of my biggest fears is getting cheated on.

And that's why I won't get into another relationship, because I will know someday I will get cheated on because I know someone wouldn't be loyal to me for 30+ years. I'm just being realistic. happens all the time. guys download apps or create fake snaps. it's easy to do without knowing. anonymous apps like whisper. I see it all the time. that's why i don't date and never will again. just gonna build my own empire, I was so stupid to think otherwise. and why are people getting married still 😂 don't they know they eventually cheat? i think it's easy for people to say that "not everyone cheats" when they are first married but problems arise. my dad was so loyal to my mom and then he cheated. my aunts husband cheated was having an affair for 7 years. my cousins husbands cheated. happens all the time. there's no way someone would stay loyal to me. I'm fat and I can't even find someone who is interested in dating me let alone staying loyal, you think a man's gonna stay loyal to me and dodge women that he could've had so he's gonna take the opportunity. so yeah, I've got it all figured out so I don't have to worry. he would be doing it behind my back so I have to watch out for when it eventually happened. but I'm not gonna look stupid so I'm just not gonna date or get married. you can have false hope and think it won't. but it will eventually happen to you. social media has made it easy, and men are tempted all the time to cheat. They think their boyfriend is loyal then they check their social media, 2 snapchat accounts... anonymous apps. Why are people still getting married? Don't they know?

bolverk · Accepted Answer

You cannot rate all men by the ones you know where you live but here in Northern England cheating/divorce is not as prevalent as you seem to think it is in general.
One in five British adults admit to having had an affair, but what qualifies as an "affair"?
hough 20% admit to an "affair", 22% have romantically kissed someone else, but only 17% have slept with someone else – so perhaps the definition of "affair" lies somewhere in between.
Men are slightly more likely than women to be repeat offenders (49% of cheating men have had more than one affair vs. 41% of women) and more likely to say they have thought about having an affair (37% vs. 29%). However, the number of men and women who have ever had an affair is essentially the same (20% and 19%).
Men and women also describe slightly different motivations for having their affairs. The main reasons cited by women are "I felt flattered by the attention" (44%) and "I felt emotionally deprived in my relationship" (43%); among men they are, again, flattery (35%), but also dissatisfaction with their sex life (32%) – something mentioned by only 15% of women.
So you cannot come out and flatly state what ALL men will cheat, when you are only seeing what is going on in your local environment.

genericname85 · Accepted Answer

no, not all men cheat. but the fear of being cheated on is of course not unrealistic, cause there's definitely enough cheaters. but any way, you can't learn how to trust someone by never trusting someone. yeah there's that risk. but you have to take that risk in order to learn how to identify the behaviors and peculiarities, so that you can eventually find someone that's great. it's the same as learning to drive a bike. you will probably fall while learning. you have to accept that you could fall, even though obviously you don't wanna fall. life isn't perfect.

leah_loyen · Accepted Answer

I have had my fair share of getting cheated on, but I do remind you women do cheat as well so it's not really just one gender specific activity. However, most men will cheat most likely sometime in their life. If they were brought up and raised right I do know that they won't cheat, if they were raised right by their parents (or whoever had raised them) they won't. It all depends on how they were brought up really. If they were brought up to never hit a women, to never disrespect or hurt others in any way, or to be loyal that is how they will act because they will see that is the right way to act. If their mothers and fathers (and whoever else may be raising them) act the way they are preaching to their child (or children) to act their child will see that is the correct way to act and they will follow in their footsteps. However if you have a parent doing something wrong, that they shouldn't be doing and the continue this behavior, or really even if the kid sees this parent do it even just one time the child will think it is okay and get in the habit of doing it, because they were raised on the belief that it was alright.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

There is indeed a big likelihood that you will be cheated on in the course of your life but it would be wrong to say that all men do eventually cheat.

The problem with our totally corrupt society nowadays is that it believes that cheating is part of a normal upbringing and part of a regular relation. Youth nowadays does not have the same values as our elders used to have in the past.

I personally give the fault to social media, the internet and the pornographic industry that brainwash people to believe that cheating is a normal occurrence.

They are no longer capable of discerning what is brainwashing and what is reality. It is sad in a way.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

No! Not all men cheat. That’s like saying “all women are whores”
It’s wrong, disrespectful, and idiotic.
Everyone has an opportunity to cheat, but it’s up to the individual to do it or not.

HighValue · Answer

Answer this. Why do so many romance novels that women like to read (some of the best selling ones) involve the woman cheating on and leaving her husband for someone else?

It is because many women like cheating and fantasize about it often. From what I have seen in my lifetime in real life, women cheat far more than men do, especially the ones that are married and have kids.

You only have around 5 years left to find a good guy if you want to create a family together so I'd suggest not wasting those years avoiding men.

Twalli · Answer

So your body is why guys cheat? I have been dating my girlfriend for almost 4 years and never had the desire to cheat in the slightest. My parents have been married since 1986 and were dating exclusively for 7 years before that. 2 of those years were when my mom was in Sweden and my dad was in LA, they never cheated despite the fact that they were given carte blanche to do so while she was there. They were solicited too. Most people (not just men) cheat. The internet has made it easier, but not everyone cheats. That includes men. Not all men cheat, not all women cheat, most people do cheat though.

strawberry003 · Answer

I believe that the majority don't. Same goes for girls. I've never been in a relationship before and I only want a serious one (with marriage) and I believe that finding the person with the same mindset as you will make you feel at ease and never make you doubt him.

Cherry234 · Answer

Women cheat too. You're making generalizations about a whole gender that isn't true. Somehow you attract men that behave like the men in your life.

Anonymous · Answer

That's simply not true and sexist to assume all men eventually cheat. When it comes to cheating, it's about equal between. It really irks me just because I'm a guy, feminist automatically label me a cheater when I've never have and never will cheat. If all the guys you encountered have cheated, then you're hanging around the wrong guys.

jasco · Answer

Honestly I know several guys who have never cheated a day in their life. However they have been cheated on by their girlfriends. But they keep trying knowing they could easily say all women cheat and give up, that's what your doing. Your giving up and thinking that all men will eventually cheat but if you put in the good work, and fine a good guy. Honestly the chance of you getting cheated on is low to 0. Just gotta keep trying, stop being negative

PrettyPriya · Answer

No, that isn’t fair to generalize men like that. I haven’t been cheated on.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

All men eventually cheat, all women eventually cheat and you're one of them!
How about that? Have you dated all the men on this planet to come up with such claims!
How much are you willing to bet that i'm more faithfull than you are and will never be tempted by anything!

ronaldo75 · Answer

Women lie and cheat more than men. Difference is that men get caught more. Also psychology has proven that it's usually the paranoid jealous partner that is more likely to cheat. Meaning the fact YOU are so scared of cheating means you're likely the one to cheat first.

Truthatanycost · Answer

You would need to find someone that has discipline, values, moral compass and a connection with God. And also someone that is aware of their own ego, thereby not led by it. This is rare, hence the issues you have noticed.

I am one of those guys, but I walked away from it all decades ago. Maybe most of the ones left are the ones as you've described.

Apulu_3 · Answer

Okay not all men are same. A man who will genuinely love you won't leave you.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, most men don't cheat.

Stop dating jerks, in fact stop hanging around jerks entirely.

Also lose weight, and otherwise take care of yourself, or you only have yourself to blame that no one is crushing on you.

KatieB713 · Answer

First, you are asumming from your post only men can cheat... this is not true as women also do it. Second, it really isn't everyone, you have just created a view based on your own experience

Anonymous · Answer

It's not a men thing that's like saying only men drink water and go urine. I only see women cheat but only because they have more opportunity and they go to clubs more for free drinks to jump from men t men for money when men just want the women not something material like her paycheck

MrtoddsWildRide · Answer

I never cheat. I have been cheated on and wouldn't do that to someone.

Mossberg500 · Answer

You could replace men with (wo) men and it would read just the same. I've been cheated on (more than once) and I've never cheated on anyone. If you can't tell, I am male.

Cheating isn't a gender issue, it's a morality issue.

Carlit0 · Answer

That is far from the truth. i went threw back to back pregnancy with my sons mother who absolutely went through a 2 year head ach, don't touch me , despise all men stage. i never cheated. worse thing I done was.💥💦 in her hair while she asleep

Fireguy17 · Answer

The same can be said about women. I caught mt exwife in bed with the landlord, and 2 other girlfriends had something going on the side.

driven159 · Answer

I am 67 years old never cheated on any woman I had a relationship with if I had to cheat then I was not interested in the woman I was with then don't be with her it is really simple

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