Search Results: i want him to be honest with me

Please be honest although I'd appreciate it if you weren't rude, I just want to see what the results are and hear some feedback from the female perspective. Essentially the point blank of it is I'm not even close to an appealing partner.

I live off less than $1000 a month before rent if I lost all my spare weight & trimmed my beard, I am MAYBE a 5 out of 10 in looks. I wouldn't say I'm ugly but saying I'm attractive is just pity or comforting flattery and I know it.

I struggle a lot with mental health & depression & have enough baggage from multiple traumatic events to fill a C-130. I'm ADHD, OCD & Bipolar and even on my best days it shows. I'm medicated & in therapy but there's limits in certain cases to how much you can change because a lot of it is chemical because my body chemistry is all messed up.

My brain often bounces between giving me way too much dopamine & not giving me any which makes it hard to keep my emotions stable. Obviously its stressful not just for me but the people who have to see it & I have problems with my speech patterns being too loud on accident even when I try not to and aware of it. I also have a robbery felony from a guy I was lied to about him being an attempted rapist. "Vigilante justice situation but she lied."

The one thing going for me is I try to be a good person & make sure to focus on my partner to make sure I meet their emotional needs not just their physical ones. In the past when I've attempted dating, I've done things like bring flowers made picnic baskets personally to go on a lunch date in the park etc. There have been times where I listened to woman cry comforting them 6 days a week from 10PM-3AM on days I was busy running off 2-4 hours of sleep for literal months.

Basically, I'm average or bellow in every way except for the fact I'll do everything I possibly can to be the best partner I can, stand up for them & make sure they feel truly loved & valued. That's it. That's what I bring to the table. Love and respect.

I feel like there just isn't enough substantial evidence of improvement or actual plans that would benefit working class people like me.
I'm working class and sure I may not make a lot of money but I can't afford to lose Affordable healthcare, I can't afford to pay even more for goods because of tarrifs. I don't see anything good coming from not receiving compensation for all the over time hours me and people like me work. I dont see why lowering income tax for wealthier people would help people like me who aren't on the wealthier tax bracket, I'm not seeing how trump signing bills like "declassifying files on JFK, RFK and MLK Jr assassinations", "deploying military to the border", "ending funding for DEI programs", "limiting definitions of gender identity", "renaming the gulf of Mexico to gulf of America", or him pardoning January 6th defendants, or their massive book of honestly racist divisive plans in the Project 2025 his supporters made that he said he knew nothing about. Or how filling cabinet picks with unqualified people actually helps people like me living in america.
All it feels like is trump gets to do whatever he wants regardless of what people tell him they need or how worse off his actions and wants make the people who honestly supported him, he surrounds himself with billionaires that don't care at all about what happends to people in need, and maga supporters get down on their knees to either suck his dick, or kiss all 10 of his toes.
This is why I just can't support Maga and trump, I had a feeling things weren't right with him morally early on because of how he talked about American veterans, and him getting upset about losing the 2020 election, deliberately not being fully honest to his supporters that he lied when he said the election was stolen from him. If you like people who deliberately lie to their supporters, and find any excuse to justify breaking the law and being unloyal to the constitution. Then Trump is certainly your president.

Please keep in mind that the great majority of LEOs & THEIR UNIONS BEGRUDGINGLY SUPPORT sanctuary policies! If police cannot be a trusted source of safety, law & justice it just makes relations with that community MUCH MORE DANGEROUS for them to interact with. LEOs don't want to die over this - ask any cop you know and they'll tell you this policy keeps them safer - if they are honest with you.

Furthermore, Raids at schools / churches are NOT supported by a majority of USA AMERICANS and further, when explained to USA Americans that sanctuary policies DO NOT APPLY FOR VIOLENT CRIMES an even greater majority of USA Americans support keeping officers safe even if it means illegal immigrants won't be deported as quickly as they desire.

Is your state/city among them?

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Counties WITHIN SOME RED STATES are listed here:

https://cis.org/Map-Sanctuary-Cities-Counties-and-States