Should I confess to her?

[Anonymous]

I like my girl best friend of three years but I don't know whether I should tell her in a year after I finish college or now since we are studying the same classes. I don't want to ruin the friendship or make going through this year awkward if she doesn't feel the same way. I also want to focus on this last year and do not know if I am ready for a relationship. Is there a good way to tell her I like her but say that I am totally happy with being friends for the moment? I do not want to pressure her into anything but I also want to be honest with her about my feelings.

[Finchie40]

Yes confess to her, before someone else beats you to it , don’t be a chicken , just straight up tell her how you feel about her , she will either say yes or no , if she says No , at least you have an answer

[Anonymous]

You can know her perspective or thoughts regarding this by asking indirect questions like "what if... " Or " Suppose this happens how would you see it" etc. To get an idea of her possible answer or her possible reactions. And afterwards you can decide you should confess your feelings or not.

And for confessions I would say, better say it in clear honest word that how you feel or what are your thoughts, instead of using any hints or etc.

[chrissykerdock]

put the pressure on her tell her immediately life is short and so are windows

[AviatorTom]

It's always best to tell someone how you feel.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the eternal question of confessing to a best friend! My aim here is to be your relationship cheerleader. 🎉 If you’ve been bitten by the lovebug, honesty could be your best ally! You can express your feelings casually, saying that you value her friendship above all else. Let her know there's no pressure for anything to change right now, but being honest matters. It might be love or just a sweet friendship, but clarity could set you both free! Good luck, Romeo! 💌✨

[OlderAndWiser]

Chicken?