What’s something that working has taught?

[MLGbreezy]

From the moment I got my first job and even more so with my second I made a big realization for myself.

I do not enjoy working for other people in fact I can’t stand it to be terribly honest I’ve never liked being told what to do even when I was young. But I’ve always tolerated it no matter how bad it got I don't know if it’s just cause I’m too much of a bitch to do anything or if I’ve just got a lot of patience.

So I want to get to a point where I can make a lot of money just doing my own thing. Having to report to someone cause your running late cause of unforeseen traffic or hardships you can’t control are annoying and at these jobs I always feel like they make it a point to kinda single you out without singling you out like they’ll say something that technically applies to everyone but you know there referencing you cause they either pulled you to the side prior or were told your messing up or sum.

Stuff like that always bothered me. That’s my goal the to make more money then any of them and so my own thing. And I will make that happen.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

1. Working hard or working wisely (and especially both), is rewarding.

2. You have love what you do, like I do.

3. Look forward to challenges.

4. Working to catch up to your bills is not the kind life to live.

[MLGbreezy]

That third one I used to avoid uncomfortable situations but as I’ve gotten older I’ve found that uncomfortable situations help me grow like a lot I wouldn’t say I enjoy them but I do try to endure and overcome them

[lightbulb27]

Life is not fair

you are worth what you can negotiate for... and that can greatly sque differences between people.

[MLGbreezy]

Wise words and I think that all starts with yourself

[lightbulb27]

100% right on that. Frankly, once you learn human development and personalities, can see how the social order occurs. Some people end up repressed due to their self view. etc etc..

[AI Opinion]

Working often teaches us about our preferences and boundaries. Many discover, like you, that they thrive in environments where they have more control and independence. This realization can be a powerful motivator to pursue entrepreneurship or freelance work. Understanding your discomfort with traditional work structures can inspire you to seek opportunities that align with your desire for autonomy. Use this insight to guide your decisions and plan strategically. With determination and a clear vision, creating a fulfilling career on your own terms is achievable. Plan carefully, build skills, and you can succeed in doing your own thing.

[Anonymous]

"I realized I hated being a adult with responsibilities towards others than myself" is what you learned huh.

[MLGbreezy]

No not even close, and you’re clearly projecting. Me not wanting to work for someone else does not mean I want accept responsibilities for another my goal is to have children one day and I will in turn be responsible for those little souls. And I will accept that when the time comes.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not projecting. I don't mind having responsibility for myself and others, in fact that is what I do for a living mister "I hate being responsible for myself and others".

[Opinion Owner]

You sound like a 2 year old. The terrible two, sounds like you've not grown since then.

[Opinion Owner]

And geez, you gonna be raising children. Gonna be do to them what you can't stand. Gonna be telling them what to do, when you can't handle them telling you what they want from you. I already feel for those little prescious soils you going to be damaging

[Opinion Owner]

And last thing: if you feel like you're being singled out at all times because you have to be accountable towards someone else, then children ain't it, you HAVE to be accountable to them and the other partner. And these are things you hate as an adult.