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So I met a woman through work, but she works for another company. We've been talking to each other for months, but in the past month or so started to have much more contact with each other, we call or text each other daily, but we are yet to meet.

We flirt, and are vulnerable and supportive of each other when we need it. She comes to me with her problems and I feel like I can go to hers with mine - but its not all problems that we talk about.

I really like this woman, I think about her a lot, but neither of us has made a direct move on the other. I've told her what I think of her, but not how I feel. I've suggested we should meet a couple of times, not with any intentions, but she deflects and indicates that she doesn't think we would work, but we get on really well. She then proceeds to talk romantically to me, asking me about my love history or what my love language is etc, so I'm a bit confused as to what she actually wants.

I know other men would be interested in her, it would be impossible for them not to be. She has told me about men which were interested previously, but didn't work out including ex's. This does make me jealous, but that's my problem, so I just listen to her.

This is the first time she has shown me any messages she received. It was a very flirtatious text from a co-worker and very inappropriate. She told me she's not shown any interest in him, and didn't like the message but won't report him. I know her well enough to know that kind of message wouldn't work for her anyway.

I guess my question is two-fold, what do you think she wants overall, and why did she show me the message?

So, here's the deal, in October I went to Italy and Malta, and I send my ex-coworker a bunch of pics, and emotions and I think it made her jealous. Anyways, she went on her own trip to Hawaii, but she already had it planned before I told her I was going to Italy. Anyways, she went to the Big Island. I asked her if she visited the volcano and she didn't reply. She only had beach and resort pics so it looks like she didn't see shit! She said she's gonna do Kauai next, so I wanted to pics to show her "THIS IS WHAT YOU SEE IN HAWAII". But at the same time, I don't want her talking that I spent two weeks in Italy, then went to Hawaii. My Hawaii trip was actually three weeks after my Italy trip, but she wouldn't know that, but there are many ways it can still look bad that I'm taking so many trips and especially considering she went to Hawaii just weeks before.

So I have a few options. I could post them right now, I could post them after a few months like I did with my Alaska trip (posted that after a year), and now it looks like I took it this year too, which is maybe even worse. Or, I could just not post them at all and not even mention that I was there and just let her have a lame resort holiday again. What should I do?

I really wanna post them, but at the same time, I feel if I do, especially if I give her ideas on places to see, I'll end up regretting it. But I do feel kind of bad for her that her Big Island trip was so fucking lame.

What should I do?