I used to roam around him and then I stopped going after because whenever I talked he didn't say much , now he is around me always, should I talk?

[oksaly]

This guy was new in our college and was really pretty and anti-social, always on phone. So i tried playing basketball with him and roamed around where he played, my ex best friend knew him and would say him to join and play with us, he wasn't talkative at all, i texted him sent him reel and he sent me too and sent a post saying it was a mistake and we talked for hours on text and it was late at night so he said bye , it was deep conversation about what he likes next day when i met him in college i talked to him I don't know if i always push conversation or he talked about himself his preferences and family, my ex best friend thought he was ignoring me she came and got pissed off at guy and took me away from there and then i never talked to him, he then was introduced to a popular mean girl by my ex best friend crush and they seemed like plotting some games or making me jealous i got so mad like HOW CAN HE SIT NEXT TO ANOTHER GIRL WHEN SHE PUT 0 EFFORTS ( by the way he would always mile at me when passing by and he stopped , i guess it is coz he saw me with a lot of guys during a college event and i was looking hot on welcome party) nonetheless i got the sign and stopped going to places where he is BUT THE PLOT TWIST he saw i now go to library everyday he comes there not inside but sit outside, i removed him from all accounts but he looks at me from corner of eye, one time i was talking to another guy he stopped playing game and sat closely like he left his one ear behind me, he always looks at me when he knows i look down always I don't know i want him to approch i can't make my fun I don't know if he is player or something , making my college experience shit

[Anonymous]

I had been in a same situation like him but I'm a girl but situations are similar so it can help you out. I was introduced to a guy by his friend and he spoke with me like you did to your crush. It was going pretty well but I'm an introvert so I used to shy to continue conversations with him so used to end conversations before they going deep as it was new for me to be introduced to a guy I felt overwhelmed even though when I like him. There were other guys who talk with me before him and he used to get jealous like you got jealous with the other girl that spoke to him. But simply because I spoke with other guys or your crush spoke with other girl or sat behind her doesn't necessarily mean that he is not liking you. He might be unsure of your feelings towards him so try opening up with him more and get to know his opinion on you and then understand his feelings towards you based on his response. And if you're comfortable, express that it bothers you to see him close with another girl and if he likes you back or respects your choices, he will change his attitude to not hurt you anymore and it can be one of the best feelings for you. It might look as controlling but if he likes you too, he will do it for you without any hesitation

[boobliker]

only if you want to take what you want from what is being given

[Guy13]

Sounds like a plan

[oksaly]

when im around he gives the biggest smile (seems like a flirty one i feel like it is a playful one not serious) , im thinking that from tommorow i would stop going to places he knows im, i dont want to be labelled as another girl, today i was playing basketball with another guy and he was looking at me while i was playing , i have no idea what to do about him why can't he just come up to me and just talk)

[Guy13]

Sounds like he is an attention hoe to me... there are DEFINITELY guy versions of those.

[oksaly]

that hurts to know , he do tries getting attention like i would go to different place and he would go there too plus i texted him yesterday asking for anime and he was like damn super random for sure.. i hate men it's confusing - today i smiled at him a lot and he did same

[Guy13]

Relationships for everyone are confusing. Do not get overwhelmed. we do the best we can flowing through them.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, there is nothing to lose

[oksaly]

when im around he gives the biggest smile (seems like a flirty one i feel like it is a playful one not serious) , im thinking that from tommorow i would stop going to places he knows im, i dont want to be labelled as another girl, today i was playing basketball with another guy and he was looking at me while i was playing , i have no idea what to do about him why can't he just come up to me and just talk)

[TJones96t]

has he called you to talk over the phone?

[oksaly]

i texted him today asking for anime shows he was like ''damn super random but sure, what genre do u like '' last time we texted was like months ago and i sent reel and he sent it too and we argued on the breed of cat , his responses got short like ''bet'' so i left him on seen