or ex.. i need advice.. a month ago we were spending more time together because he's leaving for his job and we won't be able to talk at all (he's in the army). for the most part, everything was great. he's the first guy I've been with that made me feel this loved. first guy i feel comfortable being myself around. he tries to make my life better (any problems i have), he spends a lot of time with me, i always wake up with breakfast and coffee he makes (he's a morning person), gives me massages when im having period cramps or headaches, takes care of me every time i was feeling sick (at one point he was feeding me food- i found it sweet), and we found these funny cos he said he never thought he'd do these things for someone. he's always been there for me. he's introduced me to his friends/family. i can go on but i just wanna say first that he's a great boyfriend. he does his best to make me happy (i never had to ask for any of these by the way). not to mention i find him funny and he actually makes me laugh (very rare for me from guys lol)
nothing's perfect of course. going to the bad side, he has a very short temper, bad anger issues (he says working out a lot helps him control it), smokes every day, addicted to nicotine, and drinks often. there is more stuff that bothers me, but on the stuff that we've talked about, he tries hard to compromise w me. which means a lot. he gets jealous pretty easily (not a bad thing, he just has a bad way of showing it sometimes).
2 weeks ago (a day before he had to leave), we had a big argument. i have my issues as well. when im hurt and upset, i get quiet and shut down. he's the opposite. he's very confrontational. this annoys him (i dont blame him). he ends up shouting and cursing. i ended up wanting to leave his place so i dont feel worse. he told me if i leave, he would have to break up with me. this isn't the first time he's threatened to end it, but he realizes this and eventually apologized for it. i still left at that time.
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