During more than 1 year, this guy has been chasing me. I was in a problematic relationship with another man, but I didn't tell this guy about, because I was afraid that his interest to me was linked to his romantic intentions and I didn't want to lose him. He was tender and payed me lots of attention. During this year, he contacted me every 2-3 days, more or less. He confessed his feelings to me and this frightened me. I liked him back but I never told him. Some months ago, we had a meeting, I told him about my boyfriend and he told me that despite he had several options, he only wanted me and that he wouldn't move on until his romantic attraction towards me vanished, because he wouldn't like to put in his life a woman who would be just a rebound to him, that he wouldn't like to brake women's hearts. However, he eventually started chasing me again, a couple of months after that. My situation was the same and I rejected him again. And finally, I broke with my (now) ex and he started flirting me again, but he was not very aggressive. So there was another guy whom I considered more manly and I started dating him. The guy became jealous, and after some days he started dating another woman. Now I feel very confused, because I feel like he is a great option anyways and that I've lost him.
Why do I feel so bad after this guy moved on?
