We have the same crush.
My friend said she was planning on confessing her feeling for him and I was happy for her. I was really happy for her. Me and the guy were going on a date ( friendship date I think because I know he doesn't like me) as well. I thought it'd be fair if I told her that BEFORE she confessed.
Now to be fair she's not my favorite person. Like at all. I somehow don't count her as a friend sometimes.
She ended up still confessing knowing we had a date coming up which is really fucking shitty in my opinion. We're still going, and he's going to decide on rejecting her or accepting her when he gets back to our home country which is in a few days.
I don't know what girl code is for liking the same guy. But I doubt your supposed to go for your friends ex. We have a mutual friend who dated him. They did really good but they didn't talk much so they broke up. The friend who confessed. They barley talk. Honestly I don't want her to get hurt either. Cause the guy doesn't like her in that way. He has a hard timing feeling love on top of that. Me and the guy are way closer than she is with him as well and that's for sure.
He talked to me about it (when she confessed) and I just said facts. She's a jealous person which wouldn't be good. (There are a lot of people who like him) She's still friend with his ex. They don't talk a lot. He doesn't know how to love. They never hang out. He flirts a lot but not with her.
Me and the guy are so close we call each other Babe, bae, hun, honey, darling, hermosa. We talk about fucking each other in the jokes way, but we can still talk about it. We argue on who's cuter. We've laid on each others lap, shoulder, chest. We've opened up a lot.
And no, I don't want to date him. I just want to stay friends right now. But I don't want those two to date. Me and my other friend were talking about who he fits together with. And she was not even close to the list. His mom would hate her on top of that.
So, does it really make me bad?
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