If a girl rejects me, it is wrong to move on to a friend of hers?

[romain1985]

I met this girl at work and really liked her. I told her I liked her. She responded in kind, but then went cold after telling me she liked me.

Then another girl started working with us. She’s cute, but the two have become super close friends. I know they talk about guys together. I’ve heard them.

Wouldn’t it be wrong to shift my attention from one girl to another, although they’re friends.

[Vegasrunner]

Lol, this is one of the advantages women have in dating. No it's not wrong but usually women don't mess w/ average men if they talked to their friends first (not saying you're average). You should definitely go for it but just know it will be more difficult, every time a guy dates/ hooks up w/ one girl he loses an opportunity w/ about 4 or 5 others.

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s a crap idea tbh.

first of you work in same place.

second, being new she will ask her friend about you, she will tell her everything. Chances are she will say no to you.

you will now have two girls thinking you are desperate

they will talk go any other girls or new starters…

how to get labelled a sex pest.

[Midori999]

The girl you confessed to, are you both dating one another or we those confessions just an exchange of words?

[romain1985]

We’re not dating. We just exchanged feelings and then she went cold.

[Midori999]

Well if you're both not dating then its fine to exchange your attention to someone else. But don't get upset if she starts to give her attention to someone else.

[Anonymous]

No! Not wrong. One didn't want you. The other may be a perfect match.

[ChkltCat]

actually it is the best. Punch in her face lmao

[jshm2]

A bit creepy of you to be honest. But never date people at work, you've got to work with them, even if you breakup.

She probably realized that, hence why she didn't go ahead.

[AviatorTom]

It's not wrong, but it's risky. Your ex will tell her friend all the bad things about you, including some things that may not be true. You're better off finding other women to date.

[ally018]

In this case I do not think it is wrong if it is both of your coworkers and you met her at the same time as the other girl.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yes wtf. Would you like it when a girl dates your bestfriend after rejecting her or breaking up with her? This would be a hoe move. Women get slut-shamed for doing that and so you would be a hoe

[AngelMegumin]

U were rejected, u said it urself. Ofc it is not wrong to move on and not being depressed over a pretty much random person.

[Jintendo18]

Sure, if you like the girl, then why not? You owe absolutely nothing to someone with whom there never was anything to begin with. Also, never talk about your feelings to a girl unless she does so first. That was your mistake with the first one.

[ritxi]

I don't it's wrong, but you need to assume you will have less chances with the other girl, because she will find herself as a background.

[Anonymous]

no cause the other rejected you. But keep in mind the other will fell like a second choice and also dont think she'd do something with a guy her friend liked

[genericname85]

well it definitely makes them think, you're just basically trying everyone out, which won't make them think positive of you.

[bgreek]

Hey, thinking what i'm thinking 3 0way fmf
If not, move on to the next chick
Why not?

[boobliker]

that not good as she may also reject you girls talk too you know

[In_Trance]

Guilt by association. Move on and find someone else

[boggboss]

Would look like u are being petty to get at her

[Joker_]

Her friend would reject you too

[nandana_n]

Lmao 🤣

[whosnumber1]

it's not your problem it's theirs

[Wowboi]

No. If you ain't her type she can catch an uber

[Anonymous]

Not really if the other one has no interest