Why do girls always want to be friends after crushing a guys heart?

I've never heard of a guy asking to be friends after a break up. The large majority of my guy friends leave a relationship cold turkey no contact. Sometimes they try to get her back but very rarely will they try to be friends after. I know I can't throw everyone into the same boat on this but it just seems like asking to be friends after a break up is a girl thing. My ex broke up with me then broke down into tears when I said we couldn't be friends and made it look like I was doing something wrong because I couldn't handle staying friends with someone who had just crushed my heart. Yet somehow I'm still her friend and I'm miserable. And that's just my most recent relationship every girl I know who's ever ended a relationship with me or rejected me has tried this can we still be friends thing why? Why is it a reasonable thing to ask from someone that you just rejected to be friends with you. I've never once asked a girl who I've rejected to be friends with me. There have been girls who continued trying but they still no very well I have no intentions of dating them again and most of them move on and find someone who wants to date them. If I decide to leave a relationship I'm leaving the entire relationship. I'm not begging them to stick around. The girls I try to get to stick around are the ones I want to date. So what is it? Why are girls always trying to keep a guy even though they don't want to date him. Yet always lying about wanting there SO to be there best friends. It's just my opinion but I think women are just hiding the truth that they really like having a guy around but afraid of being considered shallow and dude like for only chasing the attractive guys. Or should I say the guys that they find attractive. So they keep one guy around for comfort while chasing the hot ones just like dudes. Am I right? If not please explain what's wrong? I apologize if I come of jaded and misogynistic I didn't try to be but I'm upset right now and may not be thinking clearly
Why do girls always want to be friends after crushing a guys heart?
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