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I had a new relationship to a foreign european man for two weeks now. He is handsome , good body and charming.

I have been fool twice before by Guys who just used me for sex by my own race through their manipulation ( like only until 3 dates) and now I decided to have a relationship with a foreign man.

On our first date , it was undeniably that we are attracted to each other and he was inviting me to his house but I refused first.

On our second date, He went with me in my staycation in a resort hotel. I was attracted to him and we mutually agreed to have sex together and also relationship. But I saw girls chatting him but I don’t mind them

On our third date , we fought because he was mad why I am still in online dating site and I cannot date in valentines because of work. He blocked me and I immediately went into his house and brought him a cake. He was not in house that time and went outside to buy food with his motorbike. It was raining that time and so he return to his house to meet me and he was really wet and worried. He then kissed me and hugged me. And something again happened to us. But still I saw girls chatting him which he denied that are only friends

On our fourth date, we are planning to date together outside. But he is asking a favor from me. He wants to borrow 15,000 for his house rent.

He no longer have money and also I think he was not lying because all his ATM accounts are already empty or blocked when we tried to withdraw a money on a bank.

He is an unfortunate foreigner whose money were spent for nothing. I don’t know if I should help him. I already paid 6000 for his health insurance

I am afraid to make a mistake again , he was already my third sex and I want to make our relationship work. I want only to give myself to him and no more to anyone.

Should I lend him money? What should I do?

Now that I think about it, I wonder if my ex was bad company. We only dated for a few amount of months (if you’d even call that a relationship). It was long distance and we met online, he drove across the country for a living. I only saw him averaged 2x a month in person. We went on a vacation and split right after. Here are a few things that somewhat stand out to me as red flags:
1) He would bring up his exes rather often. And I brought this to his attention. He said with this driving job taking place right after HS, he did not have a lot of opportunities to socialize and the only relatable opportunities were with the women he dated at that time.
2) He told me he “loved” me after only a month. We spoke on the phone for hours everyday and met up in person a few times prior to this BUT in my opinion it was too soon.
3) He was never nervous, he seemed to lack emotion.
4) One time when we met up, I was using his phone to use safari and search something up. We “deleted” the app together after things were “official”. When I searched the browser, the website for the dating app appeared as “recently viewed” I believe.
5) He didn’t want to wait till marriage to have sex. He was eager to be intimate. After he told me he “loved” me, we had sex for the first time shortly after.
6) He was rather friendly. Very blunt if he told me he was checking out another woman. Told me of women he used to socialize with prior to talking to him. Seemed to make friends easily.
7) Moved on rather soon after things broke off. We ended things earlier last year and around three months later, he posted a new photo with another woman and they’ve been together since. If he was official with this chick so soon after splitting, I wonder if they were talking while I was with him.

Please read all and tell me your opinions.