Search Results: she said she needed space

She asking for space. This a bad thing?

So me and my girlfriend been going great. We went out of town this past weekend and I stay at her place to watch her house while she’s at work. Today, we even talked and we were going great. She said that she would call...

Mikewill__87

Xper 3 Age: 38

Guy's Behavior

Any advice on what I should do?

The guy I’ve been talking to has been distant the past few days.. When I asked if he was good he said yeah, but the other night I was overthinking and got in my feelings.. And I had thought he blocked me because my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What should I do?

i screwed up and made my boyfriend really mad to the point he wanted to call it quits. we been dating for almost 11 months he didn’t but he said if it happens again that he’s done. what should i do? i apologized...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after breakup with an “update” and asked if she can tell me she misses me&pics. I'm confused/hurt. What now?

Wednesday she texts me saying that she is in a terrible mind space right now and is struggling giving attention and energy to her 1.5y/o baby that trying to maintain this relationship is super difficult and that she...

Kingsi

Xper 2 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after no contact with an “update” and asking if she can tell me she misses me. I'm confused and hurt. What now?

Xanixz

Xper 4 Age: 29

Does he need some space or does he not want us not to continue anymore?

I have been seeing a guy for almost 3 months. Things have been going great and he started opening up to me and visa versa. He is an event host and last week he told me that a few girls tried to cause trouble for him....

Anonymous

(25-29)

We got into a find and ended everything in a very bad way should I try to clear the air or leave it? and any opinions on why she was quick to end it?

The fight started bc she kept acting like I was only there to do things for her and make comments that it was true, and it bothered me so I asked if we could talk bc it hurt. And she instantly told me she needed space...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does "It's not you, it's me" mean?

Had one of the worst nights of my life. My husband of almost ten years said he's not "in love" anymore. He keeps saying things like "Its not you, it's me", "you didn't do anything wrong", something is wrong with him and...

LeeannaDD

Xper 7 Age: 31

When is the right time to tell him how I feel?

I started seeing a guy 9 weeks ago. We hang out, talk and other stuff but we both haven’t expressed any feelings. Last week I wanted to tell him that I like him but before I could tell him he let me know he had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel like my boyfriend is stressed about me being pregnant what do I do?

When I first told him he was over the moon, then he turned quite horrible and was forcing me to get an abortion which I said no to and told him to leave me alone. He was very mentally unstable about it. Then I gave him 2...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do I have a chance at getting him back?

My boyfriend and I broke up. We’d only been dating 2 months but he just recently told me he loved me for the first time. Three days later (and several I love yous later), we broke up after a conversation about ideas for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If someone is dating and has a mental illness e. g. BPD do they have a duty to make it up to the other person?

I was dating this girl who had BPD, she would be there one day and not there another. Meaning we would have weeks of good relationship where she was present, attentive, soft, feminine, etc. and then weeks where she'd...

Kaamraj

Explorer Age: 36

Is she pretending she doesn't like me?

I'm friends with a girl and I feel like the more we hang out, the less boundaries we have with eachother. We slept together before we were friends, but when we became friends we agreed to just be friends, as she had no...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girlfriend said she needed space, it's been a month, should I tell her to move on?

I was in a relationship with a girl I met online for about two months. I think she has borderline personality disorder (BPD) - like symptoms. She's very loving and caring one day and unempathetic and detached another....

Kaamraj

Explorer Age: 36

Ended FWB… did I make the right choice?

I was friends with benefits with this guy for a couple months. I knew I liked him from the start but he just exited a multi year relationship so he wasn’t in the mindset to enter anything new. i would sleep over, he would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My new girlfriend of two months says she needs some space and time, what is a reasonable time to wait until moving on?

I met this girl online and we became instant couple. We have met for coffee once and it's been quite nice. She seems a bit lacking in empathy, has a bipolar type of behavior and a avoidant relationship style. Meaning her...

Kaamraj

Explorer Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Does he love me?

My boyfriend he doesn't talk to me so much. he is not that good and not that bad also as a person. he shared all his past before talking to me sexually. but meanwhile talking sextually if I ask him do u love me or...

Anonymous

(30-35)