My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after breakup with an “update” and asked if she can tell me she misses me&pics. I'm confused/hurt. What now?

Kingsi

Wednesday she texts me saying that she is in a terrible mind space right now and is struggling giving attention and energy to her 1.5y/o baby that trying to maintain this relationship is super difficult and that she really really loves me and truly means that and I am a great man but can't maintain the relationship anymore. I replied with understanding and maybe we can try again in the future.

Saturday night comes around and I get a text from her randomly. It said just an update on something that was happening with her social media and family circle.

I was just supportive of her like always and pretty much said thats not cool this is happening to u.

She said "I just figured you wanted to know and I also didn’t want you to think I was on dating apps." I said "I didn’t think that was the case cause you said you needed to get your mind right but I'm not on them either". She said well you see how that’s going now lol.

So I just was like yeah that makes me angry with you. Can’t even imagine with all the other stuff going on. She says r you’re angry at me or with me. I said no not at you. With you. Then she goes “if you say so…”

Not even a minute later she says “Can I tell you that I miss you?” I was totally in shock and replied too quickly not even asking her what that even meant or why she is saying it. I said "You know you can tell me everything and that includes that. I miss you too but you probably already knew that lol

Then she says “I’m sorry…”

I said why you didn’t do anything.

She says “yes I did.”

I said You’re trying to get your mind right and work on yourself and the kid. You're doing what I always admired about you. That’s good... so no you didn’t do anything"

She never answered what she did or anything and 40 minutes later texts me again and just took the convo to another place. Saying hopefully I was able to enjoy the weather with my son and then she sent me pictures of her kid. I said thanks, she sent some more and I haven't heard anything since.

My (25M) ex-GF (29F) texted me 3 days after breakup with an “update” and asked if she can tell me she misses me&pics. I'm confused/hurt. What now?
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