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Search Results: turn offs for a guy
Are moobs a turn off even if the guy is in decent shape?
If a man has flabby chest does it turn you off?
Anonymous
(30-35) If a guy only texts you when he’s at work, does that mean he’s dating someone else?
He only texts me when he’s at work and it’s like he turns his phone off when he gets off and the morning before he gets to work. It’s really weird.
Anonymous
(18-24) Guy kept telling me I fancy him because my pupils are dilated. Is it a red flag?
Went on a 2nd date with a guy. I'm in early 30s. He's in early 40s. We were in a dark bar room and at some point he turned around and said that my pupils are very wide. I knew why he said that but I ignored it the first...
Anonymous
(30-35) Got annoyed by guy constantly telling me that my pupils dilate because I like him?
Went on a 2nd date with a guy. I'm in early 30s. He's in early 40s. We were in a dark bar room and at some point he turned around and said that my pupils are very wide. I knew why he said that but I ignored it the first...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it a turn off when a girl texts you first (be sincere)?
Hey guys! Please be sincere, is it a turn off when a woman shows interest in you by texting you first? Also, if she texts you often during the early stages of the relationship? Just curious.
Anonymous
(30-35) Zodiacs, Rise Again (Redux) 🙌
I’ve written something similar before and yes I’ll be writing something similar again. It’s very therapeutic when I express myself in writing about my experiences. So allow me to relax, see if you relate, and let’s all...
Mr. interupting?
Okay men…. I was talking to my guy friend who’s only just a friend. Just the normal “how are you?” “What’s new?” Once we stopped talking and I started a new conversation talking to another guy making small talk, sharing...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why would a man do this?
So there is a guy that I follow on social media. I comment from time to time on their post and they reply and comment back, no big deal right. I was always respectful when I post as well. We would talk in the private...
Anonymous
(25-29) Ladies, would you be turned off if a guy goes to great lengths for his appearance?
So I’m gonna be living with my girlfriend soon. And I’m kind of embarrassed because I have so much stuff that I do to make myself look and feel better. First of all, I probably have more than 20k worth of clothes and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is it a turn off if a guy has red cheeks?
I'm a guy with fairly rosy cheeks and blush easily because of it. I feel like girls would think it's odd/boyish for a guy to have rosy cheeks.
Anonymous
(25-29) Help me out with this dude?
A guy I know he is always kind, very sweet and seems to be a good friend. I know him through my family.. but he just confuses me. But his behaviors are odd. Here are a few that have happened. He will engage fully with...
Anonymous
(30-35) I don’t even know he confuses me?
A guy I know he is always kind, very sweet and seems to be a good friend. I know him through my family.. but he just confuses me. But his behaviors are odd. Here are a few that have happened. He will engage fully with...
Anonymous
(30-35) Dating a Younger Guy: How Can I Overcome Body Insecurity and Fear of Intimacy?
I’m a 39-year-old single mom who recently started dating a guy who's 14 years younger than me. Initially, I was drawn to him mostly because of his physical attractiveness, but as we spent more time together, I developed...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Most embarrassing moment with a guy in high school?
So what’s your most embarrassing memory from high school with a member of the opposite sex? For me, it was when I was beaten up by a cute little girl in 10th grade, I had been hassling her. After she pinned me and was...
Jpie555
Xper 4 Age: 46 
Nahid1707
Guru Age: 27 Should I cut this off or continue pursuing?
Firstly, I’m a guy, but my account says female for some reason. I’ve been seeing this girl for a few months, and I’m unsure if we’re compatible long-term due to our cultural and racial differences (she’s South Asian,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Gave a Fast Food employee my number but my friends says I shouldn't have?
There was this really cute girl at the register. I complimented the first time I went there and said she was pretty. She said thank you and I did my order. I went in again like a month later not expecting to see her....
thebestalt
Xper 5 Age: 25 Guys, Is this typical male behavior?
So my boyfriend and I have a pretty good relationship, however the other day I noticed a pattern in his behavior at times. Somedays when I've already been gone all day at work and I come home he just sits on the couch,...
Anonymous
(36-45) Would men be more attractive if they grew horns?
Just what if biologically we evolved to have horns like those herbivores? It tend to be the males who grow horns/antlers. And it would grow during puberty. It could change history, religious beliefs, laws, weaponry,...
Aiko_E_Lara
Master Age: 28 
This guy coworker stops me to talk to me we work in same department I was actually heading to go home so no one was working at that time?
Anyways he the one stopped me we was talking and than turns out my supervisor was further way behind me but calling my name out loud she never has done that before, first off why would she randomly call my name out and...
Anonymous
(25-29) 