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I have my phone password protected but face recognition eliminates the inconvenience created by the added security. I have it protected because some of my clients communicate with me via text and I am obligated to protect their confidential communications. However, if my wife suspected me of any inappropriate communications with someone, I would gladly unlock the phone and allow her to look at anything on the phone (except confidential client communications, as required by my professional rules of ethics.) If she has any suspicions, I know they are unfounded because I am 100% faithful and loyal, and I avoid even the appearance of doing anything inappropriate. And, if she has suspicions, I want to show her that I have nothing to hide and resolve her doubts immediately. If I had doubts about her, I would hope that she would do the same for me. And I would allow her to look at my laptop, also (with the same restriction.)

Are you willing to compromise your digital privacy in a relationship? If not, why not? And how do you respond to the statement, "If you have nothing to hide, then you would let me look at your phone?"

before any of you jump the gun and claim that I'm a victim blamer I like to point out that I'm well aware that rape is a very traumatic experience. I myself am no stranger when it comes to trauma so I should know that like any other victims of trauma people who were unfortunate to endure rape often times do not want to REMEMBER such experience. so they...

- Dont want to think about it

- Avoid hearing anything that relates to it

- (most importantly) dont want to TALK about it

it might also explain why so many rape victims dont bother to report their incident. so with all that said I now have a 6th sense and that is to never believe women who I just met or dont know personally when they say they were victims of rape. to me if a woman does not hesistate to scream that "she was raped" from the top of a mountain without feeling any sort of trauma, anxiety, or shame then is obvious to me that she is lying or orchastrated the incident in her head.

she is most likely trying to avoid accountability by claiming that she was forced into it or simply trying to use this as a way to gaslight you once you start to feel the false sympathy for her that she wants you to feel.

till then this tweet explains it better than I do. I should also know cause a girl who I almost dated was a prime example of this. she claimed her ex raped her the night she lost her virginity but then her story started to sound like horseshit to me when we cut each other lose and she would shame me for being a virgin while she was not; like who the fuck would be happy to lose their virginity via rape?

The mistakes you shouldn't make either in a relationship or in marriage.

(Don't be fooled, learn the 10 cheat codes)

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1. Thinking that her guy bestie hasn't or can't fvcked her. pic.twitter.com/Ga39Ms2UkR

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