Why are boys obsessed with staring even having a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So I have this classmate who used to stare at me a lot. He once talked to me also out of nowhere. Always sat beside me. I could feel him listening to me whenever I was close to him and talking to someone else so I thought he had crush on me and will approach me. But it turned out he developed situationship with another class girl who was after him and still stared but less frequently. He avoids her in person but is involved with her online. Once my friend told me that he was talking about that girl that she's too obsessed with him and he doesn't like her but then I saw him with her so many times. Why doesn't he stop looking at me if he's interested in her? I mean why men do that?

[slatyb]

He has settled. He wants you but he's afraid to ask, believing he's not worthy and you will reject him. So he's with her because he thinks it's better than being alone. He's wrong about that. How do you feel about him? There are many people, especially young people, who would be excellent partners but who have a good self-image and feel that the people they admire are out of their league.

[Asker]

Well it's only the manliness that makes a man worthy in my eyes. If he had been manli enough to ask me out then I would have responded him positively but he didn't do anything to break the ice and went after the girl who chose him so I think I'm not obliged to talk to him or care about his feelings. Some days he ignores me as if I don't exist and some days he stares too long for me to break eye contact and then I just don't know what he wants.

[spartan55]

Yeah, he wasn't 'manly' enough to ask you out, that's it. No, more like you did nothing to show him any interest, so he chose another girl. Now, you are doubling down claiming he shouldn't look at you. You have one person to blame for coming up empty... YOU.

[Asker]

@spartan55 I'm not blaming anyone and why are you being rude for no reason? I'm just saying why males do that and that's it. To know what they are thinking and not to be in delusion that they have crush on you. So don't reply if your male ego got hurt

[spartan55]

Yeah, keep telling me what to do and see how that works for you.
There was nothing rude about my response, you just didn't like it. There's a difference.

[Anonymous]

Because guys have a biological drive to fuck attractive girls. And some men don't have the common sense or self control to not stare.

[pumpseedinmyholes]

Because we wear tight cloths and slutty ones because we CRAVE THEIR ATTENTION

[hotman5]

straight men are attracted to women whats new?

[Asker]

Lol being attracted to women doesn't mean you have a girl being obsessed with you and you still stared at other girls. This is called cheapness. Either stick to that girl or remain single

[spartan55]

Cheapness? Uh... what?

[Anonymous]

If you're hot, you'll get looks. How's your body?

[spartan55]

So if someone likes someone they shouldn't look at you? That's absurd.

[Asker]

Lol so you don't know the difference between LOOKING and INTENTIONAL STARING AS IF GIVING SIGNALS? Of course there are a lot of guys everyday looking at women but a specific guy giving intense looks isn't normal lol.

[spartan55]

Yeah, I know the difference honey. That's all based on YOUR perception. An intense look to you may not mean anything to the next person. That doesn't change my answer anyway. Refraining from looking at someone because they like someone else is beyond retarded.

[Asker]

Lol it could be at those places when you see stranger for one time but in work place/education and for 3 years, it is targeted. No one locks eyes with someone out of no reason or your fuck logic which says that MEN are gonna be attracted to women while having a woman and it doesn't mean something else

[moneymagnet24]

You're Emma Watson for him