Why would my boyfriend unfriend his lady friend if just friends?

[RavenWing057]

I’ve been in a relationship with my boyfriend for more than half a year now. Known each over a year. He’s the best and most healthy thing that’s ever happened to me.

I have asked him about certain girls on his Instagram. There is this one that he mentions he talks to from time to time, they used to work with each other from a different country. Claims that she sees him like a brother and that they’re just friends. He knows I’m insecure about her, I’ve asked him if theyve been together before and he says no.

Just found out that they are no longer following each other on Instagram. Should I ask him why? I feel like there’s more to it, but I’m not sure if I should just leave it alone and avoid an argument.

[Finchie40]

He probably ended his friendship with her to show respect to you , because he knew you were insecure about her , It means your boyfriend loves you and only wants you and he does t want anything to break you both apart. I do the same thing for a girl I give my heart to , if she feels insecure about a certain girl or girls’ I am friends’ with , I will distance myself from those girls’ to show respect to her , that she has nothing to worry about , if she does the same for me, that’s even better , Having opposite sex friends’ can cause a lot of unwanted drama in your relationship, why it’s best to not have opposite sex friends when you love and care about someone , you don’t have to be enemies with your opposite sex friends , just no longer make them a priority in your life and make your partner your priority instead. That’s where love grows between 2 people that choose each other over everyone else , if you can’t do that for your partner? Don’t expect them to do the same for you , it needs to go both ways

[ohsheeT]

You know one of the biggest things in a relationship it will make it end in heartbeat is jealousy or being a right fighter thinking that you know something when you don't and you sit there and argue about it or just drama that's created

You asked him about her he answered you he deleted it for a reason whatever that reason is there's only two reasons and you can take it however you want to but he was thinking of you or himself when he did it

If he's never ever given you a reason to doubt him before why do it now if you start asking and probing questions and create drama it will create an argument and why would you want to go there if he's with you today he'll be with you tomorrow it'll be with you until there's a reason not to be don't give him that reason if you really like him if there was a big enough reason for you to doubt him and you had proof of it then you could ask him about it but without any proof whatsoever he has to leave it alone

If you're not happy in your relationship walk away if you want an injury relationship create drama it works every time because men do not like to hear or women like to hear somebody telling them what they did or what they didn't do when it never really happened

[Ms_KnowItAll]

It's possible he knew you were insecure about her and just wanted to give you one less thing to worry about.
I wouldn't start any problems about it.

[HollyK21]

So this is the healthiest relationship you’ve ever been in and here you go, ready to make it toxic.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the rollercoaster of online relationships! Instagram can be the ultimate gossip machine and sometimes leave us wondering if relationship dynamics are shifting. Generally, unfollowing someone can mean many things: maybe out of respect for your feelings, she's no longer in the picture or he found new priorities. If trust is solid and he's "the best and most healthy thing" for you, there's no need to stir the pot. If it's bugging you, a light-hearted chat can clear the air. No need for ghosting here—communication is key! 😉💬

[HawkPerception]

Communication is key in a relationship. If you're curious and have even the slightest doubt, then communicate that to him so he can clarify the scenario. A GOOD partner is someone that does not want their partner to feel uncomfortable in any way or feel any negative emotions, so if he loves you, then he'll gladly share. If he's dodging, then it's definitely suspicious.

[slippery2000]

They could have just had a falling out or something but maybe just bring it up to him and give him a one time chance to come clean. Tell him if he's honest right away, you are prepared for the pain and hurt of him lying to begin with, and in return tell him that you won't freak out and you're prepared to discuss why he felt the need to lie and hide it from you. Either that or message her yourself but that would in return be a violation of his trust if he really is telling you the truth.

[MisterWack]

Well you should ask him why they unfollowed and if he doesn’t want to discuss it further don’t push it because clearly he is uncomfortable on the subject and should just be left alone.

To avoid an argument, let him set the limit like “I don’t want to talk about it”. Just don’t put pressure on him, clearly it isn’t anything big though drama could’ve been the reason or he felt uncomfortable talking to her for some reason.

[Redstang88]

There was probably some sort of history there or he thought you suspected some, and he wanted to remove any potential issues or cause for you to worry. That’s what people do in healthy relationships

[hahahmm]

The opposite reason from why you still have guys phone numbers and social media hidden somewhere, I guess.

[sage2021]

She probably came on to him and he said "No!" But she continued to come on to him in a romantic way and he pushed her out of his life!

[strateguy632]

To avoid suspicion, not because it was more than *frend.

[midnightmoon05]

Let it be. He respects you. Enjoy the time with a good guy.

[katiesmuff]

He might be the one to ask that question too! Odd's are very good that we don't know him.

[worldscolide]

Possible. I've unfriended women who were supposed to be friends, when they started getting inappropriate, making passes at me.

[CarolinaGirl5]

Why are you being a weirdo by stalking and harrassing through social media? Get a life psycho

[Anonymous]

Stopped reading at Instagram. Online friends are NOT real friends.

[LiamJHayden]

He probably unfollowed her because he realized it was not something you liked.

[KrakenAttackin]

He did this out of respect for your relationship. He sounds lik a good man.

[RedInnocent69]

Sounds like you got what you wanted. Let sleeping dogs lie

[Anonymous]

Friends have falling outs to ya know. Nothing likey has changed that wasn't already before.

[WhitneySnow]

Ask him why. It might be totally innocent.

[moneymagnet24]

Wyf red flag