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I have a huge crush on a guy at work, and he has given me signs that the crush is mutual (holding strong eye contact, acting flustered during compliments, always smiling when talking to me, teasing me etc)

For morning and afternoon break, I sit at a table situated in front of the entrance to the reception/canteen. Next to where I sit, there is a small corridor with a water dispenser. Yesterday and today for afternoon break, I saw him walk in front of the entrance with his colleagues to go to the benches to sit outside. Both times, he came through the entrance and started talking to me. I could see that his water bottle was significantly full (about two thirds/three quarters) but he still went to the water dispenser to fill it up.

Could he have been using his water bottle as an excuse to come and approach me?

We got back together after a year apart. We slept together the first night then the second night I tried for sex and he said no.

He’d been seeing someone he wasn’t in a relationship with and told her it never would be before we got back together. I don’t know how soon before he slept with her anywhere from a day before to two weeks before.

When we got back together he instantly said he loved me and wanted me and him back together for good.
But then he rejected me the following day. We did speak before we slept together saying that we aren’t bothered about sex id rather sleep etc. then the following day when I tried he said im not in the mood we said this the other day that’s how we are.

But a couple of weeks/month into us and he said he wants it twice a day. He’s always been like this and has a really high sex drive. He was more or less like that with me before we broke up and got back together. We did have sex often and multiple times a night.

So why did he turn me down that night? Was it to do with the other girl? It wasn’t as good? Or do guys not work like that?
But then why would he after a few weeks/month want it twice a day and complain to his friends I don’t give him sex enough. It changed and I’ve started rejecting him

Was he trying to control me turning me down the second night since before we had sex loads? Making sure I knew my place?

Or was it about the other girl? I don’t know how often they seen each other. I just know the set up was only seeing each other. He made it clear there was no relationship but she was saying she was in love and he was saying it wasn’t like that on his side. Maybe he went every night to hers? I have no idea but I know they could have seen each other as little as the day before me and him to 2 weeks before