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I’ve been A and somewhat B. There was a time in my 20s I got a lot of attention. Lots of women told me I was cute and handsome back then. I could approach any woman and literally say anything and get away with it. I was never aggressive dbag but i could flat out make sexual jokes/remarks back then and at worst a girl would laugh out of amusement (even if she wasn’t interested).

The only time I ever really got turned down back the is if the girl was already taken. But even taken girls would often chat with me and sometimes give out there number (but they wouldn’t respond to texts/calls). I would only find out later they had bfs.

However I did have a few bad experiences. I had two girls actively stalking me in college. I’ve had random drunk women grope me in clubs/bars. I’ve had one woman get angry and trying to shove me when I turned her down. I’ve had other guys try to throw me under the bus out of jealousy. But those incidents were few and far between.

Now I’ve gotten older I’m not the baby faced 24 year old I once was. I am still in excellent physical shape but I‘m not going to go walking around shirtless (unless it’s at the beach or something).

Overall it’s been a lot tougher approaching women. Although I have gotten more aware of their body language and I’ve gotten better at my game it’s insanely tough now. I have very little wiggle room to make any mistakes. If i say or do anything even remotely considered “creepy” it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it was unintentional or not. Nor does it matter if the girl even knows it was unintentional. I’m being held to a much higher standard.

But I am curious what women honestly have to say about this. I was surprised that some prefer B. I sure as hell don’t.

I recently found a very small YouTube channel. She is small time and has only been making videos for a few months. The thing is... She is exactly like me and we have 100 things in common. Like.. I'f I met this girl in real life I would definitely be friends with her. Like everything she says, even to small details, is exactly how I think. We have even been in the same situations with minor random details being the same and have the same life stories and viewpoints. It's so " holy cow" that It feels weird.
And I know, the idea of meeting someone off youtube sounds weird. But I mean, people meet online in today's world. She is very small time to the point she is just a normal person. It's not like she is a famous YouTuber and could be considered a YouTube "celebrity". Imagine going on a dating site and instead of just seeing a picture you saw video after video of the girl being identical to you. I really wish I met this person in real life though because to me, it sounds weird. Being that - I have never done this and am not a delusional stalker lolWe have so many things in common and I feel a connection to her. She is a normal person and isn't "famous" Is it at all doable?

I met a cute girl at a chess club and decided to look her up (through the club website). However, this eventually got me to her LinkedIn and once you look at someone’s profile on LinkedIn they notice. So she definitely noticed that I looked at her profile and she probably remembers me from the chess club (or possibly not).

Does this come off as major stalker vibes? Did I just scare her off too much and become a gross person?

I have read a lot of bios of ladies here about how they don't want Xper 3 or below people to dm/follow them. They're potentially stalkers, perverts and what not...

But here I am. Xper 11 master reading bio of random ladies on the internet. There's no difference. We want equality. We want justice.

#EqualRightsForXper1