I am feeling a positive vibe to someone I don't know online. We have a million things in common. Would it be creepy to tell her?

[Anonymous]

I recently found a very small YouTube channel. She is small time and has only been making videos for a few months. The thing is... She is exactly like me and we have 100 things in common. Like.. I'f I met this girl in real life I would definitely be friends with her. Like everything she says, even to small details, is exactly how I think. We have even been in the same situations with minor random details being the same and have the same life stories and viewpoints. It's so " holy cow" that It feels weird.
And I know, the idea of meeting someone off youtube sounds weird. But I mean, people meet online in today's world. She is very small time to the point she is just a normal person. It's not like she is a famous YouTuber and could be considered a YouTube "celebrity". Imagine going on a dating site and instead of just seeing a picture you saw video after video of the girl being identical to you. I really wish I met this person in real life though because to me, it sounds weird. Being that - I have never done this and am not a delusional stalker lolWe have so many things in common and I feel a connection to her. She is a normal person and isn't "famous" Is it at all doable?

People meet online today it's possible

Don't do it.

[Unknown_Swan_]

Well that all depends have you actually initiated written or verbal discourse online with this woman? If not, then how do you know that you have a million things in common with her?

Going back to the point of online communication. People can sometimes write and say they believe in certain things online, but this can be a rouse to try and get more people to like them, like their content and make them seem a nice and charismatic person. This is called advertising and promoting oneself to an audience to become more popular.
Whereas in real life, that person could be a complete 180 of what they portrayed themselves as to their follower/audience base.

I would ensure that you have some vague ideas of what this person is like, and that you actually have things in common before you propose a plan to possibly meet up.
And then after that contemplate whether or not you should actually ask her that.

[Asker]

Because she is just being her self in 8 min YouTube videos. She isn't making any serious money and isn't a persona. She tells stories and makes jokes. It's pretty obvious it's just a person having fun and not a fake persona.

[Unknown_Swan_]

I would actually message her first and see how it goes before asking to meet up

[WhitneySnow]

It’s possible. You can reach out to her and give her your info. But she may not be interested, so don’t be butthurt if she doesn’t answer. Do you like her like her or friend like her?

[Asker]

I am attracted to her but I wouldn't do it just because of that. It's the fact we have so many things in common too.

[boggboss]

Do it if u want don't think she would want to meet

[Asker]

Probably not.

[Anonymous]

Is she black and you are white?

[Asker]

Why would you ask that? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Just wondering