Search Results: Ever been cheated on

when play wrestling with who ever like you boyfriend/girlfriend is tickling considered cheating? Would you consider it a legit win or a fake one?

I think that no woman is truly yours. Women come and go, she might just lose feelings for you. Women put a lot of weight into how they feel and their feelings can just change one day.
As people we all get complacent and she may just lose attraction, cheat or decide she doesn’t want you anymore. I don’t think women live in the same way men do. Even after breakups it’s just women partying and feeling relief, they are happier single and have so many friends.

It kind of occurred to me today, back in my asshole days. I cheated on a really nice girl while I was in Brazil during the world Cup. She's married now and has a kid and she's really happy so I'm not going to contact her, but I don't know. I kind of feel like I should but I won't.

First, If you have a problem with this being a gendered question Please kindly DO NOT ANSWER. I know both women and men cheat. The rate is very nearly 50/50. Both genders are guilty. You just never, ever see men posting stupid shit like "A real man sticks with you after you cheat, he helps you with your flaws" You literally never see that stupidity coming from men. You see them making stupid excuses, lying, and so on, but that's about it. You also never see men trying to pin cheating pregnancy on men.

So Tell me, does a real man have to accept her flaws including infidelity, cheating, and paternity fraud?

I think the answer is a very clear "no" but I have a bias. I am aware of two women who cheated on me, but I have never cheated on anyone. I know how much those experiences hurt me and I can't fathom how someone can love me but, at the same time, inflict such immense pain. The first time it happened, she confessed to me and told me that she loved me. The second time, there was no confession and I only learned about it later, when we were in the process of a divorce. But at the time she was cheating, she was still claiming to love me.

My best guess is that what those women called "love" was not the same thing that I call love. Both of them were somewhat self-centered and I have guessed that their version of love was based upon loving the way that I treated them but not really loving me. I will never know that those two women felt, so I am asking this question in general.

Can someone cheat on their partner while also loving their partner? If so, is it the same love that non-cheaters feel in a relationship. When you answer, you can answer anonymously, but please do indicate whether you have ever cheated or been the victim of cheating, or both.