Is any woman ever truly yours?

[Anonymous]

I think that no woman is truly yours. Women come and go, she might just lose feelings for you. Women put a lot of weight into how they feel and their feelings can just change one day.
As people we all get complacent and she may just lose attraction, cheat or decide she doesn’t want you anymore. I don’t think women live in the same way men do. Even after breakups it’s just women partying and feeling relief, they are happier single and have so many friends.

No woman is ever yours

I don’t agree

[Lliam]

It's not like the old days when a wife was essentially her husband's property. A marriage contract isn't a bill of sale.

Now days, if you turn out to be an ass hole, take her for granted or abuse her, she can say fuck you and leave.

A woman might give you her heart, but loyalty isn't unconditional. It is earned. You can't abuse her like a dog and expect her to grovel for approval. At some point, she is going to say "Enough is enough. This isn't what I signed up for."

A healthy relationship requires mutual respect and, often, compromise. You seek win/win solutions to conflicts. Each wants their partner to be happy and fulfilled. They are best friends and equal partners. They roll with life's ups and downs as a supportive team as long as they know they are loved and cherished.

When marriage isn't involved, there is even less commitment. And whining about women exclusively is a joke because men are just as bad. Men aren't more virtuous than women. They can decided to cheat or walk away from a relationship any time they want to. I did it to really nice, beautiful, dedicated girlfriends, myself, when I realized that I didn't want to settle down and spend the rest of my life with them. I found new girlfriends in my search for "the one".

[RavVid]

You are at best only leasing a woman for a duration..

Feminism has destroyed emotional regulation in women and as you say feelings rule their life. And if they are negative it is your fault for making her feel that way.

There is a universal psychology in both guys and gals that we don't value what is plentiful and prize what is rare. In relationships this plays out mostly as stability versus excitement.

The bad boy is exciting because his woman is never sure of what he will do next or even if she will be with him next week.

The stable man is boring because next week will be the same as last week.

So a woman might get over not knowing if the electricity will be on next week and hanker for a good stable man. After a while she might find the lack of excitement boring and start hankering for an unstable bad boy who spends the rent money on a road trip.

She will yearn for what she doesn't have and with no emotional regulation jump ships.

WRT to sex the desire she feels from other men is always going to be more exciting because it is new and not obligated. Her husband telling her she is beautiful means nothing but random stranger men saying means a lot.

In time she will realize her beauty is fading and she is on a count down to invisibility. So she will conclude if she going to go back to her 20's it is now or never and leaves her husband.

[sawno]

She is not truly yours in the sense that she isn't property so she always has free will to leave if she wants to. But relationships where she wants to be yours for the rest of your life are also common. Just takes the right girl and not screwing it up.

[Anonymous]

in this era not good to get too possesive towards a girl , look at it more as spending good time together than the idea she is yours in the sense , she's not an object rather someone who choose to spend time with you and could decide to be with someone else

[msc545]

No woman is ever really yours. Instead, you are the woman's, in the same way that a potted plant is the woman's, with the same amount of regard. She'll water you and feed you occasionally, but she really doesn't give a damn about your welfare other than how much money you could spend on her.

[FindingCommonSense]

All cope is toxic. Stop coping and face it: your parents did a trash job. As did all the women's whom you're disappointed by.

[DryGermanGuy]

Could you go away and whine somewhere else? It's beyond the point of boring.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Street women are truly not yours. A good woman is truly yours.

[Mariogirl09]

I can say the same for men

[DonaldDarko]

Most divorce is initiated by women.